Grapevine (freewrite) | Rumours and Gossips
I heard it crawls wildly and if not controlled, it can grow everywhere. And it also needs pruning for maintenance and for better results.
Most people love to eat grapes. But certainly many do not like to be entangled in the grapevine. Or be in the main subject of the grapevine. But it is rampant. It is everywhere. Schools, companies, organization, small or big industries, none are exceptional. Whether we like it or not, we often get information on the grapevine.
Do gossips and rumours avoidable? No, not quite.
As long as human still have their key tools - mouths - grapevine are bound the happen. People just love to assume when it comes to uncertainty. They can't contain the unrest hence they talk it out. They make comments. They make remark. And somehow, this has some sort of magic it will spread and grow around without the need of fertilizer. Just like the saying..
When there is smoke, there is fire.
How often we receive information on the grapevine. While most of it can be only 50% true, people thrive on the sense of knowing what might happen. They don't wait for formal announcement. They don't check the memorandum or emails. They just hang around on the grapevine.
Sigh.
I feel like an alien when it comes to this matter as I get exhausted when I hear too much from the grapevine. It is mentally daunting to me. It causes me suffocation. Or information overloaded. Then I got tensed up and stressed. Hence, most of the time, I became extremely quiet and I slowly make my way out. Inside, I feel like rebuking those who spread rumours or gossip without double-checking but I ended up walking away.
I learn about being slow to anger, quick to listen and slow to speak from the Bible. I hold this advice close to my heart. It has saved me from misjudgement and miscommunication. It makes me wiser as a person to judge a circumstance from my heart and not from what I hear on the grapevine. Many times, I pick up the information and I go to my room and pray.
On the side notes, I still love grapes. I thank God for the produce of grapes, but, not those gossips on the grapevine. Cheers!
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Just know about this term - grapevine! Deep.
Despite all the cons of grapevine, it comes as a great source of info and it can be a great tool to find your way into the specific community. Just to keep the negative ones at bay. Cheers :)
Oh yes, I learn a lot of new terms since i join the freewriters community. :) cheers to you too @kimzwarch.
Oh, I see. Improve my vocab just by reading the freewrite tag.
And hats off to you for holding your peace and being mindful of your heart and lips! It's something all of us should practice in life. So much to learn from you!
This is the way I calm myself down :) alot to learn from the Words.
Sending you kisses from the SteemitMamas :)
Such great wisdom and yeah so much to learn in this. I can get entangled too and frustrated obviously. You have illustrated it so well using the grapevine!
Kisses!!! #steemitmamas
I am learning new meaning from the word ‘grapevine’. Interesting. Giving you lots of 💋💋💋💋.
I love grapes too :)
Yes gossip can get out of hand. So juicy, but it goes too far and sometimes the damage is done and too far gone.
When the kids tell me something about their friends especially, I always tell them there's 3 sides to the story. His, hers and the truth. And even then it is just perception./opinion.
Kisses to you @iamjadeline :)
CATCH! And lots and lots and lots of kisses! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Faith. ❤️
I like how you tied the "grapevine" to gossip. I like grapes too, but not much for grapevine. Good piece. #steemitbloggers
Sending you kisses through @steemitmamas!💋