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ah.... do they look at you as traffickers?? I certainly hope not. And I guess it hurts that you are not natives?

Best wishes with you. I try to stay up todate through Helen's blog.

Thx

No, it’s not bad. It is just not normal according to western standards. Thus disqualified.

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And maybe the confusion is that the US government didn’t sanction the placement first. The Malaysian government had granted us guardianship and we will finalize the adoption through them. Then we go to the US for approval and citizenship. This is all according to procedures, but there are no US adoption grants for it that we’ve found. It would probably have to fall under a naturalization grant or something ... and I don’t think those exist.

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Well i wish you massive luck! i am sure it will happen. Just hope it is the shorter route. not the long and cumbersome route!

All the best!