Some thoughts about love

Love seldom sits in us, she seeks to appear, find hers, and conquer them. Strong soulmind, which, according to Schopenhauer, can fuck the smartest minds, crazy people, politics, and all the more striking. According to Rose, love is like the thirst of the soul for the body. And, according to Ivan Ilin, she is a great gift without which she can not and who allows us to see the good. And choose to live with him. According to Berdyaev, love, unlike sexual attraction, is the attraction of the personality. It can weaken the sexual attraction.

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The loved one was a little dependent on the sexual need and could even become ascetic. In close connection is also the jealousy, tyranny of man over man, erotic materialism. Somebody's checking for love. Women are lighter than men, because they defend themselves. Love is the penetration of the soul into the body. For Berdjaev, besides love for personality, there may be a love of ideal, a value for mankind. But it is abstract and false and false (May-refers only to the humanist love of mankind). The problems of love can not be solved rationally because they are not universally accepted. When love for good acquires a fanatical character, everything but evil is dying.

Sigmund Freud puts love as the realization of the libido. Transfer of Ace Libido to a particular subject. It can exist in three anti-hate-love hate-love hobbies-to be loved indifference or indifference. The soul object is influenced by three polarities subject (I) -object (world); pleasure-dislike and activity-passivity.At first, love is rather a narcissistic subject and the subject is merged. Enjoy yourself. Later, interest in the surrounding world is being developed as an environment of pleasure. But it can also be an irritant, and rather, as such (from an earlier stage), hatred mingles with love. Hate is even an older feeling known to the narcissistic self. Love is associated with the realization of sexual needs, unlike hate. The stories of love are different sexual purposes that are complex. Positions can be eating, stopping the existence of the subject (oral stages). The next one is a sadistic-anal organization, as it is the individual's striving to conquer the site, whether it will be damaged or destroyed.