Family Love

in #good-karma6 years ago (edited)

Hey friends been so long i posted on my blog. Watch out because am coming with full force, hahaha.

**FAMILY LOVE??! When i was growing up i thought family love is whereby the parents ,kids live beyound happiness but what i keep seeing around me and hearing doesnt seem like family inlove.
Firstly what is family;Family is made up of father ,mother and children. Every one has his or her role to play in the family and in the kids life and growth but when the role is onesided it becomes hard for the kids to either love or hate.

I have come to see a family where the mother is the one playing the father and mother role to the kids and the father is busy drinking himself to stupor and acting non challantly to the kids ,doesnt care about the kids whereabout. The kids will be good because of the power of a mother among them but when the mother suddenly leaves the world,then u will see how miserable the kids will be even for the father.

The father doesnt know anything about fatherly role ,and even if he browses about it ,its too late to enforce it on the kids.
The kids on the other hand keeps missing their mother because she was everything to them. She was their advicer,cook,best friend , mother, happiness , source of unity.
As daus turns to weeks and to months as the kids starts getting matured separately ,they notice among themselve that they are departing from eachothers love little by little but the funny part is they cant control the separation, funny you ,but how can they control it when the controller of peace , love, and unity is no longer with them it turns to a dead family love.
Thats when you see the kids misbehaving ,acting separately, cursing eachother, fighting eachother. The love in a family becomes hatred, envy, fighting , lies.
In a family where there is a mother there is always love , happiness, joy and peace.
Thumbs up to the mothers in the house,the sisters and the girls in the house and all over the house. image

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