It's your blog and your story, write for you first and I feel often people appreciate your work more because it has an honesty about it. Thank you for leaving a comprehensive comment on my post, which I will answer. I think you should hook up with @steemterminal and @heyhaveyamet they are super supportive and a great group of active Steemians working together. @brittandjosie whose post you linked above is one of the people who runs the discord, and is one of the nicest and kindest people you would ever hope to meet.