In answering the last question, you point to a very interesting point. The Gold diggers are attracted when financials are good. Exactly right! But in such a condition, it becomes difficult for anyone to check out their intentions because many gold diggers are excellent actors as well..... And if someone focuses on equality of financial status, then other qualities may be neglected. Anyway, this is my personal opinion and you have the right to disagreement. Thanks for raising this different but interesting point. Have a good day.