The older the child, the deeper the mind. I don't know what I'm thinking about all day. I always stay in my room by myself and don't want to chat with my parents.

In fact, sometimes it's not that children don't want to talk, but that children don't know how to communicate with their parents. If the parents have been strict with their children since they were young, all communication with the children is all for advice. As the child grows up, the communication between parent and child is bound to decrease.

At this time, the joint efforts of parents and children are needed. First of all, it is definitely that parents need to change the way they talk. Dad in particular needs to learn how to communicate with children.

So how can parents improve their communication methods?

1. Increase the sense of humor.

A sense of humor is very important. It is the spice of our daily life. When talking to children, we must also learn to release our humor and let the children be close to their father.

2. Education is adequate

Adolescent children are sensitive and understand the truth, but they just need to smash themselves. At this time, the reminder of the parents is enough. You don’t need to talk about it, and keep your children away.

3. Empathy

Parents who understand empathy give their children enough respect and a sense of security. Children are not exactly the same as their parents, and the things they experience are very different from their parents. Therefore, learning empathy is particularly important.