Suffer In Private, Glow In Public

The title is saying so many things and in this blog I'm going to explain it with real life examples. These examples may coincidentally match other’s life but these are from real people's lives.

People who can hide their emotions are the real players and actor in life. This may sounds odd but this is something many of you will agree with it.

This is hard to hide real emotions and expressions. At least for me its tough to hide my feeling and unwillingly it expressed in public. Every person has a dark side in life that he/she wants to hide from others. If it exposed may bring disasters in life.

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So if we can hide our sufferings and act happy in the public will be good for us. There are many people you’ll meet in life who may hurt you, ditch you, dump you, hit you!

This happen to you to pull you down but if you act happy in front of them, that will only defeat them. So after suffering if you act happy in public and start glowing that will be your winning. So always glow in public even you may suffering in private.

Let's come to the real life story. A celebrity life is full of fans and haters. Once there was a celebrity who was earning good name but a rumor was created by his haters and they thought they can spoil his career. But the celebrity act on that rumor nothing and just ignored it like such useless issue. After few weeks the rumor gone and he again build up his career like before. In such situation, weak people commit suicide but he didn’t.

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One more real life story. This is a story of female actress. I'm not going to expose her name and she is a local actress. She was engaged with a sick guy who recorded video clips of their private moments. When the actress was trying to move on with other person, that sick guy exposed her private videos what was a kind of porn. Later she married some other guy and move on. She again came back after few years when her vital videos were forgotten or removed from some website. She must suffered that moment but she didn’t commit suicide and decide to give up. She takes time and just moved on.

She is again glowing in public but she suffered a lot in private. This is not easy for a girl that her nude videos exposed on internet. She probably made mistake but it was her personal life but it exposed with a bad impression. She went to foreign country and had meditation beside medication and came back when the issue was forgotten.

So take time and try to move on is wise though its not that easy for everyone. Many of us decide to quit. If we are suffering in private, we should glow in public. Celebrities are also human being and their life is not a public property. So I always ignore rumors or viral news that harm others. If we common people avoid such rumors and viral issues that harmful to others, we can make this world beautiful.

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This is my original writing, 1st published here : Suffer In Private, Glow In Public