Good to reead about the bad habits you think as bad.
Very Firstly as you added why notnto write in mother tongue, that's the fact often I (instead of we) feel ashame for using our mother tongue and forcefully try to speak in English or in the other languages. That's let the confidence down of ours for our language and yeah the value goes down. Secondly which language we used instead of our's becomes master and king and the language we felt ashamed to use become slave.

Anger is indeed a bad thing, but not enough. You can control this, and I can (not) see you are controlling this while reading this comment. So the journey is started!!
This time I don't want to disturb more.
Regards: