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Hope everyone is well,Steemit Engagement Challenge S10/W3 Incredible India Community asking a very important question? I am trying to give a correct explanation of the question that has been asked.

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A great truth of life can be revealed today.Through which you all will know about an endless love of married life.

First of all, I would like to thank the community admin Didi and the moderators of the community.they are so thoughtful and put some important questions in our midst.I will try to explain it correctly.

✅Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

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Do I believe of course? A marriage and with whom to spend one's whole life, is decided by heaven.That apharwala writes in our destiny,with whom our married life will begin and with whom it will end.

Maybe talk like that? If so then why would a man have more than one marriage? I would say that his destiny is just as written above, he ends up having more than one marriage.

So I totally agree with this question,surely a marriage is made from heaven.The Supreme Lord when we own everything He fixes everything.

✅Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

Actually, everyone's preferences are different, but this is what I generally support when it comes to marriage.According to me the choice from the family the girl, who is decided for us, most of the time the decision is right.

So I like arranged marriage,arranged marriage and love marriage both happen in our society. But in most cases it is seen that the married life of love does not go very well.

After a few days of marriage,it can be seen that various problems, arise in the married life of that love.There is always confusion and trouble, eventually they get separated from that bond.

And it mostly happens in love married life. Arrange marriage is very rare,so I prefer arranged marriage.

✅According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

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According to me a happy married life is one, where both have equal rights.One stands by the other in danger, knows how to respect him,and any problem the two jump together to solve.

If there is any danger in the family, both of them have significance to correct it, seeing the happy married life of the two,so that others are also inspired.How they remain happy in the midst of hardships,how they are so perfect in everything.

Support each other in any work,come forward to help him.I think that is the definition of a happy marriage.

We all believe it? A happy married life is unique to each couple, completely depends on them, what they achieve in their happy married life.

✅Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

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We all believe that marital relationship is very happy in every person's life.But most of the times we see that these relationships don't last very long.So it seems to me that all these reasons lead to breakup in this marital relationship.

The custom in our country is that children are married off at a very young age. And because they get married at such a young age,they have the mentality of children.But with the passage of time their relationship started to end.

There are always some problems in the family, there comes a time when they are not in touch when their relationship starts to break down.As we all know, communication is the unique key to a happy married life, when this communication system of a married life gets shaky,then this happens in their life.

Sometimes it is seen because of infidelity and many times, this terrible case of separation happens.A relationship survives only on trust, when two people do not have this trust in each other.That's when their life broke.

This separation happens due to financial problems and many times in life.Where a lot of money is needed,and then there is no decision not to stay together without supporting each other.

One last thing to say,if a relationship is to be strengthened.Must have faith in each other, trust in each other.Have patience to face any problem.

The communication system between the two should maintain their physical relationship equally.If it can be kept like this, then this horrible incident like separation will never happen in our society.

Anyway friends,I have shared several things with you about married life.I hope you like it, and if there are any mistakes,I apologize. @baizid123 @ripon0630 @goodybest

I will also invite three of my friends to participate in this challenge and share their views.

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Stay well everyone,stay healthy,thanks everyone for reading this little engement challengeand of course share your feedback.

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Hello dear, @mamun123456


  • True marriage is very beautiful and heavenly. I agree with you because the marriage that is arranged for us by the family must be good most of the time. All my love marriages are not very good, very few people are happy after love marriage. It's nice to see that you've made sense of it above. Of course, if you want to have a family, first of all, there should be good understanding between husband and wife. A If they have it then there is no doubt that their family life will be very happy. Also, it is very important to have faith in each other. Always support and hold each other mentally and physically. I like your words very much.

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Thank you so much for your support

you explained the very well your thoughts on this topic
i totally agree with you that

According to me a happy married life is one, where both have equal rights.One stands by the other in danger, knows how to respect him,and any problem the two jump together to solve.

without respect there can not be build strong relation, so equal right also play good role to set the life with justice

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ধন্যবাদ আপনাকে আপনার সুন্দর মতামতের জন্য।

Hi greeting dear brother and as you believe that the soulmates are pre decided by Allah mighty and their destiny is also a predicided while you describe about the causes of separation in marriage life the one most serious one and you discussed is the young age it might be one of the main cause of divorce and other calls you discuss is the financial issues it might be true because if financial issues mental stress in both partner and causes that separation very soon I wish you very good luck for contest.

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