The Diary game //@irsaumar//12-03-2022//Most important&emotional day of my life

in STEEMIT PAKISTAN3 years ago

Aslam 0 Alaikum to all steemains!!!

I hope you all are good and enjoying your lives. I am also good by the grace of Allah Almighty.Today I am going to share the most important day of my life with you all. This post is very close to my heart .Every girl can understand that how important role does this day play in a girl's life.

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Yes it was my Nikahday .Its was 28 December.I was feeling very strange since this morning .I was crying a lot .I didn't understand, what am I crying about? My heart did not want to eat anything, I had not eaten anything from morning till evening. This house to which I belonged, suddenly seemed strange. Nikah was fixed at zohar time.

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Prepration

At 12:30 my sister-in-law told me to get ready .My mom had ironed my clothes which I had to wear .My mom was crying too much while ironing clothes .Because she used to did all the household chores by asking me.And this day she was feeling very lonely, what will she do after my departure .My heart didn't want to come out in front of her because my own heart was getting too small.

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Got ready

i started being ready.I do my own makeup I Mostely do my own makeup .I wore white frock paired with khussa and some white jewelry.Don't know how many times I cried while getting ready .U can see clearly from my eyes.

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Nikah time

It was time for Nikah.My mother and my sister brought me to the drawing room and made me sit .Then the nikahnama was placed before me .Can't describe my condition at this time .my whole body was trembling .And there were tears in my eyes due to which I could not even see the marrige contract.

Then the Nikkah started .Maulvi sahib read in kalmas and Some Ayat and then asked if I accepted...
I said yes with a torn voice .I have confessed 3 times .
And then asked me to sign . My hands were trembling so much that I could not even sign.Then I signed very hard .

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And the everyone prayed to Allah Almighty and sweetened the mouth .

And then the people from groom side went to their house and I also changed after a while.

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Mehndi items

After a while my groom's sister brought my mehndi items. They brought the mehndi suit, bangles,Mehndi ,khussa and flower jewelry for me.After sitting for a while they also went to their house because tonight thet had to do their brother's mehendi.
I had to go to get my hair cut so agreed to leave soon after they left .My Appi really liked my flower jewelry, so she tried wearing it once .

> Me with my Api & her daughter Marium

And then we went to the parlor to get the hair cut done.

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Got ready for mehndi

It was evening when we came back home .My sister asked me to wear the mehndi dress and got ready a little.we didn't do proper mehndi function. there was a lot of work going on I had to do my packing .Quickly put on Mehndi dress and put on flower jewelry .Clicked some photos And after doing a little rasam, I changed .I didn't put on any makeup at all because I was crying a lot .

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After that i did my packing .late night sat talking with my mother and Appi.

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So that was my Nikkah day .I still have tears in my eyes as I write this post .This day is very emotional day for every girl .That feeling, only a girl can understand how difficult it is to leave her house and go to another house.

May Allah Pak bless all the girls .Ameen

Thank you all so much for spending your precious time in reading my diary.

In Sha Allah I will meet you again with another diary.

Remember me and my family in your prayers .

Allah hafiz
Fi iman Allah

Kind Regards
@irsaumar

Special thanks to
@haidermehdi
@hassanabid
@salmanwains
@vvarishayy

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 3 years ago (edited)

Perfect thoughts
Best wishes for your future .You mention that every girl this day very happy and in that contest we boys are sad because if one individual get marrying why i am not why we are single😭😭😀😀we boys are very jealousy😃😃 And another thing i am to ask from you why female cry on the occasion is this a happy shad or some what melancholy 😭.
I am just jocking my sister best wishes for your future i think you and your's partner will be successful partner always .Congratulations from mine side Have a nice day .

 3 years ago 

Imagine to leave ur place permanently?After that u will go only as a guest in ur own place? How will u feel?
Thats the reason for cry

 3 years ago 

As per my perception its not a big deal in case of love marriage and for arrange marriage in case female completely unaware from basic from male then i am agreed but not at all because in islamic society female is guest in her father home her real home is her husband home

 3 years ago 

I said in my post that only a girl can understand this feeling
So thats y u cant
Leave

 3 years ago 

Yes it's very emotional day for every girl but it's an essential part of life. May Allah blessed everyone.

Nice post dear. Wish you more happiness in your life 💐💐

 3 years ago 

Thnx alot😍

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@haidermehdi i delegated 50sp
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 3 years ago 

Thnx alot