Contest| "Love and Money!"

Love is a natural feeling of strong emotional attachment to someone or something, it is a feeling that makes someone attracted to one another, it can be felt among siblings, it can be felt between husband and wife, and even between parents and children, and friends. All these love has types and is expressed differently.

In this context, I will be referring to the love that is expressed among people of the opposite sex ( romantic love) and its connection with money.

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EXPERIENCE OF HEARTBREAK

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I have never experienced heartbreak, because my first relationship led to marriage, so I wasn't opportune to be in a romantic relationship with another man. But I have seen close friends and family experience heartbreak around me. I will be sharing just one.

My husband and I while dating

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THE EXPERIENCE: There is a friend of mine who got into a romantic relationship with this guy in my area, and the guy deceived the girl that he would marry her, my friend thought he was very serious so she devoted all her earnings, energy and time to this guy, she put her all in the relationship, but she noticed the guy has another woman who has been giving the guy more money than she is giving, she thought the girl was forcing herself on the guy so she approached the other girl to warn her about her husband to be but the other girl told her that they are planning their marriage with this guy she didn't believe, she left.

This guy kept deceiving my friend. So one day my friend visited this guy in his house, she was doing clean up and she bumped into the guy's wedding invitation with another woman, she cried and left then narrated the story to us her friends, we had to console her and encourage her to wait for the right person.

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GENUINE LOVE WITHOUT MONEY

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Yes, genuine love without money exists. Love without money involves a man choosing a woman out of love instead of choosing a woman who has money, and also a woman choosing to spend her life with a man who doesn't have much money because she truly loves him, instead of going to the one with more money.

I had two suitors, one had more money than the other, I was in a dilemma I didn't know what to do, the one with more money didn't really love me and I felt nothing for him but If I married him I would not have any financial difficulties, but the other one without money loves me so much and I loved him too but if I marry him we will be managing a little we had, he didn't lack what to eat, or where to live, he was a moderate man compared to the other one, so when I considered all this I was confused about who to choose, so I visited an elderly person who gave me advice, related some experiences and allowing me to make my choice.

I chose the second one who didn't have enough money, which happens to be my husband. I will say I made the right choice because my husband has enough now and he showers me with love. And my husband and I have a genuine love for each other. It wasn't based on money, it was real and from the heart.

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LOVE AND MONEY WHICH WILL I CHOOSE, AND MY REASON

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I prefer love to money, I had the opportunity and I chose love.

REASONS:

1. With love offenses can be forgiven freely.
2. Love will not allow a man to hit a woman nor allow a woman to disrespect her man.
3. Love will allow understanding and care to be seen among couples.
4. Love makes every good thing to be possible.

I know everyone has their choices and preferences and It is a personal decision, but I will advise intending couples to choose love over money.

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MONEY AND LOVE

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Money cannot answer love, but If there is money where there is love, it makes the relationship more strong and stable, and there will be smooth running of the family.

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I consider it a great privilege to invite my friends @okere-blessing, @perpetaul, and @vickmoon to participate in this contest.