Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 63: The lies I grew up believing.

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Lying is a great sin for our religion. But there are some lies that are not sinful, it is better for the person. We grew up with a lot of lies like that. Anyway, I am excited to organize a community account contest on such a beautiful topic. First of all, I would like to thank the admins and moderators of the community. As a result of their efforts and hard work, the community has come so far today. So let's get started.

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As a child, there was a good moment with our family's uncles, aunts, aunts, mothers, fathers, brothers, brothers. They have contributed a lot to my upbringing. They took different steps at different times to help me grow up. Just as lying is a great sin, it is a very good thing to lie for some time due to certain circumstances.

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As a child, I heard so many lies that parents and our parents had some important reasons behind the lie. I will tell a lie from him, which was told to me by my parents and relatives when I was a child. My parents and relatives have always contributed to the development of the phrase "study that rides a carriage and horse."

I have accomplished a lot behind this liar. I believed then that if I did not study, I would never be able to ride cars and horses. 😀 They had a false hope of it. They thought that if they gave us false assurances with this sentence, they would increase interest in studying. Then that would be a valuable step behind his growing up by this false sentence.

Their purpose has been achieved. Because I used to think that if I didn't really study and follow the right path, I'd never be able to ride in a car. These words were always told to me by my parents and brothers. Again, it is often counter productively falsely reassured, "He doesn't study that he won't ride a carriage." I was the same child.

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Age never stops, age increases with time. Sometimes we can grow up with the truth and true advice of the family, and sometimes we can grow up for our good with some false assurances. That's exactly what happened to me. It was through the sentence mentioned above that grew me up assuring the falsehood of the sentence. I've got his reaction now.

What is the reaction to that false sentence? The response to the sentence is that children have their talents absolutely clean. They are greedy. If you can give them something, you can get it done. Then they understood the words of their parents and relatives and believed it. As I believed. But what I see now. Even if I did not accept it, I could ride in the car.

But I grew up realizing that their sentence was intended to educate me in a good position. At that time who did not believe in this lie but stopped studying. He also rides in a car, but could not be educated well. This false sentence meant to me that if you studied well, you could be educated. But I didn't understand it when I was younger. So what I understood was explained to me by the words. For this, I commend everyone.

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Hahahaha, where is the education of parents is the biggest lesson. They never want their child to feel bad. Because of these two reactions in me, I and some of the people in my mind, young boys and girls. There are things for them that they have to stop lying. First of all, I must apply those above-mentioned reservations. Because I learned a good lesson from it.

Second, there are a lot of little things that lie and they have to get out of the way. For example, it will not be right to eat this food for the child, but the child has repeatedly promised to eat it. Now I have to tell some lies to get me back from here. For example, I will assure him of a good gift. But then he will forget.

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Yes, that's how we can enjoy our lives. It is better to lie about some things and not lie about others. It is permissible for our religion to lie to the children to deal with the wife and also to one's own wife. Anyway it felt good, Before I go, I'm inviting some of my friends @pandora2010, @malikusman1 and @ashkhan sister

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Thank You Everyone For My Post Reading

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