Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 35: Dealing with Emotions

Hello, the delightful and peaceful people of the Steemit community welcome to Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 35: Dealing with Emotions. Yours @Rockb2k

What is your understanding of emotions?
Emotional are primary motivational component that deal with mental operations and behavior. emotional help in organize and motivate our thought and actions that are critical because sometimes it can be hard for us to adapt and response to some immediate matter of the heart.

Emotion has many components that can control you into doing something that is against your wish and for you to have power over your emotion is very significant because it will enable you to deal with people around you and a crowd before you as a leader you must have the ability and the capability of conceiving the thoughts of other towards your leadership and control if you are emotional stable you will not be able to overlook and sustain yourself with the words that is coming inside you which is telling you to be patient because emotion has to do with patients how you overcome your anger and your hatred for others it’s a feeling that can bring you down from success to failure and it’s a feeling that can lift you up to a greater high.

🔹Have you ever had emotions that made you lose yourself? tell us about it.
I have two older sister with a gap of much year but because I am taller than them I always look down on them thinking because I am a man they don’t have to give me an order to do anything in the house and that emotion has been in me for a very long time I always disrespect them when they send me on an errand and I always feel like beating them when they offend me because as an African man it is a belief that you are a supreme over any woman that is before you which is bad

on this very faithful day the second daughter of the family which is my elder sister she send me on an errand and I refuse to do it and that makes her to stop dishing my food for that evening and I was so hungry and she locked up the house and went away with the key, I was angry feel with much hatred in heart waiting for her to return from where she went, low and behold when she was coming back our parents are already back so I couldn’t pour my anger out but I was grateful that the matter has been settled and I was unable to carry out with my angry mission

. Later on I realize that if only I allow my emotion to get the best of me it could have been the greatest mistake I have made in life because heating a woman is like beating up a woman that give birth to me and I made a promise from that day never to disrespect my elder sister because as my father come back he punished me for refusing to carry out my duty in the house as they younger brother I suppose to involve in the activities that is going on at home and that has been one of my greatest achievement

I learn how to cook fetch water, laundry, dishes and many things that women do I was able to learn them through my elder sister and today they are away from home I have take over from the affairs of house because we have two girls and five boys and the two have left to their marital home living the house with only boys we don’t have a choice than to carry out all the domestic work in place of them.

🔹Explain 5 ways to deal with emotions.
-self control

accepting your fault
listing before you judge the other person
handle matter maturely
patient
Self control is one of the medicine that help feelings to get better if you have power to control your emotion you will be able to step on stones and overthrown the pain because you have control over your emotion self control help you to be able to be mindful of what you say to your opponent because it will make you to think deep before reacting to any action that my occur in the journey of life as we are human
Accepting your fault is one of the medicine that is used in healing matters that involve two or three people if a blame is being labeled against you concerning what you did wrong and you bring yourself down into resolving that problem by accepting your fault and apologize of what you did wrong it will give you a peace of mine and respect from other people accepting fault doesn’t mean that you are always wrong sometime you accept the blame to make things better because they say that two people that are working together can never be right at the same time and can never be wrong
If you listen to occurrence of issue before attacking them it will give you a good judgmental ending because jumping into conclusion and getting angry before knowing what happened can never help solve problem that is before you at times you allow your emotion to listen from your innermost heart and then you act wisely

Maturity come from the mind when you have a mature heart you will have a mental stability which we enable you to handle situation with care in order not to hurt the opponent so in every decision that we are making we have to let our emotion be matured in handling matters that has to do with two or three people

I know often a boy that serve his master for a year waiting for a settlement after the whole training and the master come with a strategy to test his mentality and stable emotion by saying that you have served me but at the end of the tournament I have nothing to offer you so what will you do now will you serve me for another year so that I can settle you for two years? the guy said yes without hesitation and the man said because you did not react to this uncalled for matter

I will give you a settlement of two years in one year and that is a plus for him because he has been patient he did not allow his emotion to control him other person might say that I am going to kill this man for this wicked art but he reacted with maturity and self-control even though it was a painful situation and that gave him double reward at the end of the day patient is always the key

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🔹Do you think emotions could hinder someone from achieving their dreams?
Yes emotion has many tools that can bring you down from achieving your dream it’s just like a ladder that you need to clam with care patients endurance stability and mentally control if you lack any of these definitely achieving your dream will have a question mark because for you to be successful you need to have a self control over some matters that will need your maturity to handle but if you lack such manners it would definitely destroy your dream

Humility come in through our emotion if you don’t have humanity to bow at some point in life it will kill your dream and at the end of the day you will see other people progressive but you will still be standing stagner at where you are because you allow your emotion to rule over your humility human being are full of emotion we can cry, laugh, associate with people freely and we can restrict ourself from reaching others and also denying orders reaching us

for us to be successful we need to have a free mindset towards order and listing before taking action we have emotion of listening, emotion of reaction and we have emotion of patients we have, emotion of cry and we have emotion to love any of this can occur without us knowing it because it’s a feelings that live inside us day in and out.

thank you @Steem4nigeria for this wonderful contest I appreciate God for the Steemit platform at large, and may the Lord bless us all with a control emotion.

I invite @josepha @goodybest @patjewell @vickyson to take part in the beautiful contest.