Would your parents pressure you to get married because of your age?

Greetings to my beautiful audience, welcome to marriage seminar talkshow in @boylikegirl.club. Here I'm proud to announce to you that irrespective of my age, marriage is a load one need to carry, it isn't a compulsory tasks to bear.

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Marriage is a defined entity respected by all cultures. It isn't a room for bullying or torment of ones personal liberty. For no reason should my parents compelled me to marry inspite of my age. I have read underscored books that carries the images of some forcefully married couples over the years, the end-product of that marriage always become dilemma.

Yes! I have the knowledge behind why most parents imbibe such habits. But it's not legal for such habits to be practiced. They end up pushing their children to marry someone they don't love, and within few weeks, there's a divorce.

Parents do this for children baking

Even at this expense, most couples end up becoming barren. “Your child is not a child baker. Allow them to grow”.

I was astonished when I overheard that a girl I senior had married. And she was within 20 box. Just imagine! Could money push your parents to accept such belief? Could getting-grandchildren forced your parents to accept such belief? There should be a practice that will re-define the way most African parents define marriage.

And because these children are compelled to marry at tender age, they haven't cultivated strong marital values. They begin to slip as the marriage grows. It takes the Grace of God for them to be unbroken.

Give marriage the space it requires

I always advised my singles not to rush into marriage. Because marriage is a school with 5 million plus (+) courses. The more you grow in marriage, the more new courses are introduced. And it is beautiful when you accumulate all this one.

Yes! Nobody is a superman in the school. Even couples that have stayed for 80 years together haven't understudy certain courses. They will still continue learning even in hades.

Marriage is a Blessing
I beckon on our parents to grants us the space we need to study the beauty of marriage, understand the caps within before diving into it.

Marriage is a union of two accepted elements (humans).

If it is forced, it is not accepted. They only respected the elements (parents) involved, mostly for children who do not want to break their parents heart or those that are mummy's pet or daddies pet.

In conclusion, marriage is a Blessing. Let's embrace the beauty of it.

I invite @bossj23, @ngoenyi and @patjewell to participate