"Can you accept your lover hiding his rich?"

in Boylikegirl Club18 days ago
Hiding wealth, especially in relationships which have stood the test of time, is a very big error. Therefore, open communication is the key to every love relationship that wants to stand the test of time.

It is saddening that people have to take such avenues and routes to get themselves settled with the right choices of a life partner and the world has not gotten any better, and it still allows good people to meet up with people who pretend to love but are only after money (These groups of people are usually called "gold diggers").

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People have many different reasons as to why they pretend to be poor and this could be due to insecurities (being loved for what they have and not who they are), past experiences and some are just manipulative.

While these people have their different reasons as to why they disguise as opposites of who they truly are (as these sights are truly beautiful in movies) but this would not be funny to me in real life (especially if concealed for long) because this shows a lack of faith in the partner's character.

I personally love to be an independent lady hustling and keeping up with life and contributing where deemed fit and don't really have my eyes placed on my partners' money and, as such, with this drama up on a partner's sleeves, it spells emotional fallout as feeling used, unimportant, or being undervalued because planning for future needs honest discussions about resources.

It would even make me wonder what more he could be hiding, sensing that such people can place more unnecessary trials on you to prove if you genuinely love them (calling them tests), which is not so healthy for a relationship.

I invite @eveetim @bluelavender @triple-e

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Thanks for the invite. 😊

You said people could pretend to be poor because they're manipulative, how so? How manipulative can someone be to that extent and what is there to gain from that sort of manipulation?

Thanks for dropping by @bluelavender
Sometimes some people with this mindset become too comfortable in this deceit and never come out clean at the long run you will see them feign poverty to avoid paying their fair share (where necessary) whether it’s for living expenses, shared purchases, or future plans like buying a house or supporting children.

They can even start seeing it as business possibly jumping from one relationship to another with the sole aim of leeching.