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RE: ᔕᑕᗷ Friends and Co

There was a time when relationships were genuine, and there were no expectations. If a student didn't have a pencil, another student would offer one from their pouch. That's where friendships began - helping each other in difficult times. But all of this has disappeared over time. Years pass, and we don't even know if our friends are alive or dead. My point is that we meet new people at every stage of life, and the time we spend with them should be genuine, not based on expectations or self-interest.

In today's era, everyone is consumed by self-interest. The value of relationships is diminishing. Even in a household with four brothers, four walls are built. We showcase charity on social media but can't even bother to ask about the well-being of the elderly neighbor. We prioritize pretence over reality.

In my opinion, the only solution is for us to reflect on ourselves every night and ask: "Did I hurt anyone today? Did I lie to someone or exploit them?" If the answer is yes, then we need to work on self-improvement.

And when we can pass through all these questions positively things, it means our conscience is alive, and now we can nurture relationships. Now we can be friends with someone without any ulterior motive. We can built strong relation we can share somone's sorrow.

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 10 days ago 

Yes, you are right maybe it is our modern times makes it like that, the availability of Internet where we find people who we think are best friends, we are fond of our smartphones, that are with us 24 hours and need to check what is happening there by forgetting what is happening with our neighbour.

Often even neighbours sometimes can have a big "fight" because of nonsense and this way conflicts can raise.

I fully agree it is important to ask ourselves if we did anything wrong by the end of each day and if possible to accept that and ask forgiveness. This is another topic to ask forgiveness which is one of the hardest step, to overcome yourself and do it, we do not do it often. We do often say sorry for anything but do we mean sorry? Slowly we forget the meaning of this word, it is like an umbrella that is protecting us.

I also agree with you we go through many stages of our life and meet many people, I hope that every stage of our life will have such good friends who will be there for us.

Thank you for your comment that made me re-think some of my thoughts, as always pleasure to hear your opinion.

 10 days ago 

This is your kindness that you understand my words in a positive way and respond to them in a good manner. And you agree with my thoughts.

If I share my thoughts on a particular topic, I write what I have learned from my 40 years of life experience. May be There are some people who have not yet reached this age or have not gone through tuff circumstances, so my words may not be understood by them. But somehow, my words always contain a hint of guidance or benefit for people.

Thanks a Ton for the respect you give to my words (thoughts).

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 10 days ago 

Thank you Dear @mikitaly for considering my comment worth support.