I know I have to leave becausebitbduvks to beva mom 24/7 and not bring me. Prople even firget your name. The name and with it the identity changes inton"mother", "mom", "mama", "mother the wife", A's mom, N's mom and so on.

I wonder if you can make up being absent or if it matters. I believe children are closebwith the one who cares about them but also the one they have most in common with. It can be thr grandparent, an uncle or neighbour.

What I do wonder about is at what age a child is a teenager with you. With us it's 12+ or perhaps later.

I also wonder how thebsiblings feel now you spend most of your time with the youngest. I can imaginr that will make them feel bitter one day. I know that would be the case with me.

It's not easy to beba parent and it sucks to be a mom 24/7 and if the beach is at walking distance and the laundry is at home it's no holiday, no break. I think that's the main readon many leave. A new environment gives that break.
What isn't necessary for you because you always been away is for your family since all they had is staying home with the same routine.
It kills so talk.
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