I'm sorry as a key for happiness and self freedom || I powerup all my earnings to support #club5050

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Introduction

Here today I'll be discussing with you people what's the essence of saying I'm sorry is to human life, most people see that word I'm sorry as a very big deal or a big thing to say not with-standing whether they are wrong or right. Sorry it's just a simple phrase that can calm an angry human down no matter the level of anger that the person once you say I'm sorry that anger will come down or that anger will reduce to a level that he or she cannot be able to harm you once that person has a conscience.

I'll be giving a short story of what happened to me so as to why I'm sorry is very important. It is story that happened to me one day, it was in my secondary school days, I went to a boarding school, I was in the midst of my students we were talking about a Prophet so some students which most of them was my senior back then, started talking bad about the the Prophet in a very bad dimension.

So I takkled them and told them this is very bad that you don't talk about Men of God that way. The senior got angry and picked offence with me. Although right from time the senior is for her wicked act. She told me that for saying that she is going to deal with me. I taught it was a joke so, one faithful day she called me I never knew that it was a plot to get me into trouble. So she planned with her sisters and called me that evening that I should go and collect some stuff from her sister, on reaching there her sister sent me back to the senior I went back to her, she sent me back to her sister these went on for like 4 times so I was tired and told her that I was not going again the she opened up and told me that she did on purpose so as to punish me.

So I went to my hostel, I told my bunk mate about what happen to me she told me to go and apologize to the senior I refused because of pride. So I sat down and and think about it and decided to go apologize to her. Then she said next time I should learn to know what to say in the midst of people. After that day she became my best friend and senior too.

This pharse sorry, has done alot of good things to all of us both in our families, relationship and otherwise, if we can tell ourselves the truth. If we check ourselves it come to us that there's nothing you do in your daily life without saying sorry. That phrase has done alot for us in the sense that we practice it every day in order for us to achieve something.

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Reasons why to should always say I'm sorry
  1. To facilitate a growing relationship

  2. To always clear your conscience and be free from guilt

  3. To express personal feeling on something or about something

  4. It creates a room for favour and good opportunities in families and relationships.

Conclusion

Am not saying that you should say sorry and loose your self respect. Say it when it's required of you but sometimes you might be in a situation whereby you are not guilty of the crime but because of circumstances surrounding it you are found guilty but deep down you, you are innocent. So at this point what have to do is to say Sorry so as to save some stress.

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 3 years ago (edited)

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