Choices! What will it be? #24

It's the story of a girl, who was full of life, but ended up in a toxic relationship.
She was a girl who get married to her Aunt's son. It was a love marriage, but family members were not agreed.

The family of the boy was very conservative in terms of financial spending and freedom. The girl's family was liberal and agreed to marry them because the boy was well educated. He was living in abroad, they thought he would take her with him.

They got married, everything went well during the starting years. He took him abroad with him for a short time. After that, he lost his job and sent her back.

She started to live with her in-laws, her mother in law which was her aunt, started putting restrictions on her. She was not willing to live in that environment because she was from a liberal family.

Her husband came back in their home country and started his new job in another city. His wife asked him many times to take her with him. But he didn't.

He was also not willing to have a child, after many years of their marriage. But she conceived, her husband wasn't happy on that.

Their disputes started afterwards. He started to beat her off and on.

When any issue initiates between a husband and wife, if a wife shouts back on a husband in response to him, she gets slapped and physical abuse.

Same was the case here.

Some men projects their anger onto their wife which they would easily control infront of their boss.

However, Girl's family was very supportive towards her. They were ready to file a divorce case in the court. But the girl said, she doesn't want a divorce, because she was the mother of a baby boy now.

She became depressed more with the passage of time and their relation became worse.

Once came a time when she said, she wanted to end her life and commit suicide. It was their love marriage which had broken her heart.

Their son was two years old when he finally took her with him in his apartment. It apparently looked that things had become better.

His husband had a traumatic childhood due to the violent nature of his father. His father was involved in beating people in the early years of his life. His son got the same instinct through this childhood experience and let it grew with him.

He was insecure in his status, financial well-being when compared to his wife's family. Which he used to expell out by beating her.

But things had changed, a week went well in their new appartmenr. It was only an unfortunate day when they started to fight with each other.

It was supposed that she wanted to stay there, and meet his brother who was leaving for abroad that night. But his husband had clashes with her brother, and asked her to go with him to his parent's home.

^{She retaliated and refused to do so. His husband took off his belt and beat her infront of their 2 years old son.}

She yelled a lot, people on the ground floor heard it, they didn't go for a help, thinking it was their regular fight.

It was an unfortunate moment, the husband tried to suffocate her by wrapping his belt around her neck. He tightened his belt around her neck for five minutes until she showed no movement again.

She was dead, blood was on her neck, with a round mark on her neck.

Her husband had realised for the first time what he had done. He changed her clothes and wrapped her body and took her to his parent's home(in another city).

His plan was to tell everyone that she died in an accident, or committed a suicide( she had depression and told once that she wanted to jump in the river).

But, his mother said, it would project the doubt on us (her in-laws) for killing her.

They took him back again in their apartment( which was in another city), placed her body on the bed. They called her brother at 10pm, and said come here immediately. When he reached there, they told him that she has committed suicide.

Her brother was shocked, even her father knew her mental condition, and thought she could has committed a suicide.

We all were shocked on hearing this news, a girl barely of 28 years old, mother of a 2 year old son,ended her life.

He killed his wife at 3-4pm but told everyone about it at 10pm. In the meantime they were planning what to do with her and get out of this situation clean handed.

When his father got his senses, he asked how did she commit suicide? By killing her vein or by hanging.

On paying close attention, they saw that the ceiling of the room was so low, that no was can hang himself while standing on the bed (which was right below the fan).

They asked for a postpartum for the body which clearly showed it was a murder. He wanted to kill her. He later on got arrested, now he is on a bail, has left the country.

Welcome to our justice system

He parents have become alive dead bodies now.

Her husband was a psychopath, his all family members were. His father had shooted his brother. Now his son has killed his wife.

This is the harsh reality of the countries in the east, that women don't want a divorce, and end up dead. It is the society which shames a divorcee. They says she must has a fault or didn't know how to make a house.

They make the life of a divorcee miserable and no other fine suitor would come for her.

It is the peer pressure that makes women remain in their deadly toxic relation.

^{If you find a man or woman who has ended their toxic relation, please be kind to them, you don't know the condition they have endured, which they no longer can.}

It's equally important to heal from your childhood traumas or anger issues before getting married. It's better to live alone than destroy others life because you're sick.

Hope you would be kind to every person growing out of their suffocated relations:)