Is This a blessing or a burden - my dairy game for (3 September 2024)

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The previous day, I had the new about a particular young lady who gave birth to a set of twins. Oh I love twins, and my husband is a twin.
When I inquired who the lady was, I found out it was the girl who works at the nearby bakery.
It was a shocker and a concern to many. So today I decided to visit them at the hospital.

I woke up to excited and at same time tired because of the work load I had yesterday but I was determined to visit the new mother and her girls.

After cleaning the house this morning, I got my daughter ready and we headed to the hospital.

Before I continue with my visitation let me tell you a little story about the girl in question and how she got pregnant.

She is an orphan who worked for a close by bakery. One day we had she was pregnant and that became the top gist of the street earlier this year.
The guy who got her pregnant is also an orphan and they both work in the same place.

The bakery has staff quarters, and they both live their.

Though I have no relationship with her, she is just a girl who usually greets me politely anytime I pass by the bakery and I took notice of and her pregnancy because she was very young and pretty.

So few minutes later we arrived the hospital. Oh the twin girl where so pretty they look just like their mother and healthy too.
When I inquired of her, how she has been fairing, she told me she was hungry and that she had not eaten anything since morning.

As I had that my heart broke into pieces, to hear that. So I immediately ran home to make her something to eat.

While she was eating, I asked her what she needed again and she requested for diapers for the babies. Though I was not prepared for that, yet I couldn't ignore the request. I went again to a near by market to get the Pampers with my daughter.

After getting the Pampers I decided to stay with her a little bit, encouraging her to keep strong. The truth is, I know it would not be an easy ride, but at this point she has no other option than to be strong, for herself and her kids.

While we where there, some persons who heard about the birth of twin girl came and brought so many gift for them. I guess they love twin babies just like

I was so happy and relieved to see that people actually care and are willing to support them.
That brought so much relief to me and comfort to her.

As I watched her smile it made me happy because no woman she be worried just after delivery.

Now this brings me back to my question, do you think this is a blessing or a burden.
See the economy of my country is not smiling. It's very hard to live with the cost living already frustrating the living.

How is she going to care for those babies, adoption is not an option here because that practice can not be trusted here.

The guy responsible for the pregnancy is just as poor as she is.

I know people are willing to help, but for how long would they help. What ever they are bringing would just be to pass by few weeks of months at most.

The responsibility of taking care of those children is still resting on them both.

Hmmm this is a very hard nut to crack. I just hope and pray for a good Samaritan that can start her up with a business that can at least enable her care for the kids.

I would try to visit them again this weekend and offer her what ever I can afford. While we hope for some miraculous intervention.

Enjoy my little photo gallery from our visitation.

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My sweet twin baby girls

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One of the ladies who came to visit while we where there and she is eating the food I brought for her

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My daughter when we went to buy them diapers

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Mother and her girls

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My daughter admiring the girls

All pictures are mine. Taken with my phone.

As you read through, I would like to hear what advice you have the new mother. Thank you for your warm regards 😊.

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