The meaning of being oneself
It is important that we can define and conceptualize about our personality, since knowing ourselves according to our thoughts and the way they are reflected in our behavior will provide us with a degree of acceptance in reference to who we really are without complications but with a high degree of fundamentalism.
The most important aspects that we can find as life objectives should be based on the security that we show for who we are and the acceptance we have of ourselves, in addition to this it is important that we do not associate having security about ourselves and confuse it with selfishness and that we do not care about our fellow men.
On the contrary to selfishness, understanding our own personality implies that we can ensure that we like who we are, and that we are satisfied with the way we have decided to live our lives.
As a conclusion, I can deduce that once we accept ourselves as we are, it is because we are not interested in the way others see us.
Anybody who always thinks about what others think about him, will find it harder to know themselves. You must realize that - it's about you, and not them. Nice read.