I believe in self-confidence

Hey, everyone, happy new week. i hopefully believe you all are fine, and I'm glad to be here to participate in these beautiful contests that were organised by @alfazmalek in the Hindwhale community which tilted I BELIEVE IN SELF CONFIDENCE. I'm also inviting @pea07 @rubina203 @moyeon and @josepha to engage in these nice contests.

DO YOU BELIEVE IN SELF-CONFIDENCE or NOT? DESCRIBE SELF-CONFIDENCE IN YOUR OWN WORDS.
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I believe in self-confidence because without self-confidence, you can not be able to achieved anything, and when once you don't have confidence in yourself, that means you're a failure, but with self-confidence you can be able to achieve your goals and it helps us to decrease fear and anxiety in our lives.

Self-confidence really means having a belief in yourself, and it can not be instructed by anybody. it's something you need to grow in yourselves,and it's an attitude about your skills and abilities. It's a way to multivate yourself to see the next version of yourself.

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SELF-CONFIDENCE AND OVERCONFIDENCE AND HOW SHOULD BOTH BE KEPT UNDER CONTROL?
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Self-confidence comes with trust, adaptability, and knowledge in oneself and the capacity to be improved in your skills. To keep controlling your self-confidence, you have to challenge some nasty thoughts about yourselves and you most know yourself and what you value . Lastly, avoid competing with others that's above your level, but still believe in yourself that you will be at that level one day.

Overconfidence might result in being arrogant and complacency. feeling too much known about something which might result in reckless decision. It will make you feel exaggerated that you are better than others. To control this emotion, you have to be honest with yourself and see yourself as someone who's still learning to improve. Even when you're a guru in any kind of skills, when once you feel overconfidence, that's when mistakes will occur. So another one is pride, feeling too big to take advice from others.

IS THERE ANY TASK THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE FOR YOU, BUT YOU COMPLETED IT THROUGH SELF-CONFIDENCE?
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Yes, in a place i worked before as one of the event planners, so the owner of the company wanted to make me the manager and other of my colleague was not happy because they were there before me. So i have to reject the offer and i told my boss please give it to the oldest one let me be supporting him as usual. It's not that they're qualified to manage the business, but I have the experience more than them of which the owner of the company noticed it. But with the help of self-confidence that i have, that's the reason I didn't expect the offer because i know one day it will be my turn to manage the company which letter happened. Had it been, i didn't have trust and believe in myself i wouldn't havev the opportunity of become a manager in that company. Sometimes, it happens mostly in football. Some players we be too overconfidence because they know how to play football, for example, Manchester United goalkeeper Andrew Onana last season he was too overconfidence because he can keep ball very well. and that overconfidence letter brings him downfall that makes him conceived alot of goals. What am i trying to say? Let us avoid practising overconfidence in everything that we're doing. Try to build up self-confidence inside yourself because it will help to boost your ability to focus and achieve your aim. Like I said before, even when you're a guru in any skills, try and have self-confidence.

Thank you all for reading my post, and have a blessed new week.

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Curated by : @wilmer1988
 yesterday 

Well explained, self-confidence is believing in your self and knowing about situations and solving them.

  • On the other hand, overconfidence destroys people behavior and they become arrogant and due to which they loss everything.
 18 hours ago 

Self confidence truly comes with self discovery. Overconfidence can ruin ones abilities, that's why it is great to manage our confidence with wisdom in order not to result in overconfidence.

Best wishes!

Thank you dear 😘