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FATHER?
I don't have one. I should have a biological one 'cause I'm not a clone but I do not remember him. My parents separated before I turned two years old. He did not do anything for me. He never reached out, cared or wanted to see me. I am sure he knows where I am but I'm not going to explain here how I know.
While my father lives the good life, like a king, I was raised in poverty while my mom worked herself into death. I had a happy childhood and lived in the Disney world drawing a lot plus from two years old I fought my mom to use the computer.
A good thing my father said:????
He never said anything to me, didn't leave me a note or letter, no postcard, no phonecall.
Tell us about your dad in two or more paragraphs.
Impossible. I have no two pargraphs to fill about a stranger and why should I?
If it comes to a father my mother was my father. She did both jobs other parents might share. If this is true I don't know. I never met an old fashioned, happy family, only hard working moms carrying the burden alone.
If you ask me fathers are overrated. I wouldn't know what a father could teach me what my mother can't. She's the complete package, a handy(womanand taught me how to use a hammer, a drill, howto paint and by now I am the 'man' in the house (sweaty feet included LOL).
A biological father never played a role. He's the invisible mr X I never think of. So no need for him to be my father in a next life (I do not believe in a next life). If cloned or a dog for a father it wouldn't make any difference except for better, more loyal dna.
I have no best advice from any father or man. They hardly play a role. I lie if I say I missed the guy and you should have one,know yours to live a happy life.
You cannot miss what you never had! Is this the advice you like to hear? If it comes to me I don't feel the need to meet a stranger, we do not have the same blood.
May 19, 2024
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Hi, I'm Xiao-Aine. I started in 2018. It's some months ago I wrote. If you wonder I am Dutch, single, have a dog, am busy and work nightshifts. Thanks for asking me again and the tips/help @wakeupkitty. I find it hard to write daily.
I do understand your pain because I have same experience. My father hadvtan away when I was 6 years old and never came back to home. I struggled a lot and still I am facing financial issues because no one is there to support me. I am feeling your pain.
I am not in pain. Mine left before I turned 1 year old so I don't know him.
I am sorry to hear you still struggle. Do not let it affect you. There are plenty of cool people.
Thank you for your answer but I am not in a lot of pain. I think you did not read what I wrote or is it hard for you to understand that there are people who do not care because they do not miss anything? My father is not dead.
Like I wrote: It is impossible to miss what you never had.
Your loss is a real one since you knew him. I am sorry to hear you miss him that much. It feels as if the wrong father died.
Mom will be happy if I tell her about paradise under her feet. I thsnk you on her behalf as well for your kind words and sharing your feelings.
I wish you a good day.
I read your post very deeply. Actually you are not living with your father. That's why I said that you are in lot of pain
Welcome dear friend for your entry in your in this contest here you write about your father, fathers no doubt our blessing for us and they work day night to feeders and to give us shelter. You write your post very concisely and I appreciate you and wishing you all the success in good luck
? did you read me? My father does NOT exist. He did nothing.