" Do You Think It's Right To Trap Man With Pregnancy"

in Steem For Lifestyle27 days ago
Hello greetings from me @etette to you all my fellow contestants in this steem For Lifestyle,it a pleasure to be among the participants in this great and wonderful contest,it and interesting title that needs our participation because we are facing this challenges in our society to day. Unwanted Pregnancy has become an issue in the society due to poor coordination and understanding among those involved. So like to welcome everyone to my blog as I write my post on the topic title.

Do You Think It's Right To Trap Man With Pregnancy?

Well I will say no to this question, because pregnancy is When two person that is lawfully married agreed to have pregnancy . But a time when it occurs,it becomes an issue of concern to both parties or respectful of the personalities involved. So it is very wrong to trap a man with pregnancy, Pregnancy is not something that a girl can woke up an decide on how to get a man through her pregnancy.

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So personally I say that it is Not right to Trap Man With Pregnancy, which I will still give more reasons as I continue in this contest.

Do You Think It's Compulsory To Mary Who Is Pregnant For You,When You Are Not Ready.

At this point,the question is so tactical in nature, because issues like this is common in our society which a lot of people young and old are involved in this act. To me I will say NO because Compulsory marriage due to unwanted pregnancy can bring divorce at the end of the day if not at the Early stage. In our society to day young girls and even old women do go around doing what is not right and when pregnancy comes,they become confused and look for who will bear the cross. At this point rhey will look for a man that had been their besty to pronounce the pregnancy.

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So it is not good to Compulsory get married due to pregnancy because a time this girl's are not straight forward and not ready to marry, and if through their unnecessary movement from one man to another pregnancy occurs,they will only want to deliver the baby and leave the baby just like that.

Why Do You Think Some Girls Invite Their Selves In This Trapping?

To me, there are many reasons why girls involve themselves in this trapping, which I will like to through more light on my own point of view, Let me use the present generation to give my reasons. Now a days girls are not contented with what they have,they what to become wife to a Rich man without knowing how that person becomes Rich,so in this perspective,a girl will likely force a pregnancy to a man who maybe knew her but in the real sense the pregnancy is not for the man, she will only use it to trap the man so that she will become a wife to a Rich man.

Do You Think There Are Successful Marriage That Started With Pregnancy.

At this point,I will say No, because a lot of things are happening in our society where girls will only initiate in marriage before you know there is disagreement in the family. I will like to share a story of my cousin who was trapped by a girl when he had money ,so this girl was final year student in the University,so she was an intimate friend to my cousin later run, she announced that she is pregnant for my cousin,so the boy accepted the pregnancy and they got married, when the child was delivered and the boy took good care for his child. My steemians, some thing happened that shocked the family.

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After the girl graduated from the University and unfortunately my cousin mis his work,this same girl that is a wife to my cousin,one fine day said that the baby boy wasn't my cousin pregnancy, that the father of the boy is alive,so question was "Why do you trapped him with pregnancy,she replied that he was with cash by then.
So it was not an easy experience
So at this point due to my expectations,I will say there was no successful marriage.

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 26 days ago 

This case of trap pregnancy is truly rampant in my state and I will voice my opinion soon in my entry.

Thank for the invite.

My friend why didn't leave this contest for the female folk na🤣🤣🤣. I'm kidding sha. Well there are successful marriages that started with pregnancy although it wasn't the right way to go, but instead of the parties involved crying over spilled milk, they brace up and moved. So it is what it is. Good luck on your entry and thank you for the invite

 26 days ago 

You're absolutely right, no woman should use pregnancy to trap a man to marry her, like you've mentioned, the marriage may lead to divorce sooner or later.

The same story about a lady who forced her child on your cousin also happened to someone very close to me too. Unfortunately, after the person she took the child to heard that another man took care of her and the baby, sent her away. This time, she didn't have anywhere to go as the first person rejected the child too. I heard she took the child to a third person but she eventually died later.

Pregnancy should be in marriage and two people's business not a forceful thing.