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RE: 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 Sibling "Rivalry"

in WORLD OF XPILAR2 years ago (edited)

I know this is hard but all I can say is, I hope you both resolve whatever it is that is going on.
Like you said, it could be an unintentional jealousy that he is oblivious of. Maybe one day he'll "come to his senses" and know you're the only brother he's got and he's gotta make the best of memories with you and not always ending conversations with arguments and possibly anger.
And I hope you also in no way remind of the things you have accomplished in life that he hasn't?
What about when you were kids, you think you were the favourite son?

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 2 years ago 

I'm fairly certain that he has no idea. I've noticed for a while that he's argumentative but haven't ever spent any effort to work out why. Maybe when I don't waste effort engaging, he'll stop doing it 🤔

And I hope you also in no way remind of the things you have accomplished in life that he hasn't?

No, there wouldn't be any point. We made different decisions at each stage in our lives and have ended up in different places as a result. Nothing can be done about the stupid choices he made 🤣

What about when you were kids, you think you were the favourite son?

I doubt it. I think we've always been treated equally and we made our own decision what we did with that. I know that my mum has always done her best to treat us all the same.

Maybe when I don't waste effort engaging, he'll stop doing it

I guess that’s the best option

Nothing can be done about the stupid choices he made 🤣

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 2 years ago 

You make mistakes to learn from them. Some people learn faster than others 😆