Woaw, amazing 🔥. Thank you so much for sharing this.

I would still like to emphasize on marrying your sex mate. I'll be talking especially to christain couples who are practicing sexual abstinence until marriage. The issue is these couples tend not to discuss sexual issues during courtship because they see it as erotic, meanwhile forgetting that sex plays a huge part in marriage.

Now, I think it's absolutely necessary for couples during courtship to discuss what they're comfortable with in the bedroom. Just take a look at social media today, you'll here stories like "I got married to my husband 2 months ago and how he's demanding oral sex from me which I can't." This is exactly a clear indication of the fact that sex wasn't discussed during dating/courtship. I know we're in a conservative society where people feel ashamed to talk about sex, but it's high time we wake up.

Good writeup overall. If I were to summarise all you've said, I'd say make sure you're compatible with your partner in every possible aspect