You wrote so well on this Dowry matter, our generation needs to be considerate about extorting lot of money from the would-be groom, we shouldn't follow the lay down rules our parent set.

Like you mentioned above, how the groom will be asked to renovate an old building of the bride's parents house and also for him to buy some items for the dead grandparents... This is a very wrong thing to put on the marriage list.

Is only God that will deliver us from all these.