How it Feels to be a Parent

in Steem Cameroon3 years ago

Some of us were born in best homes while others just out of ill lock. But we all do have but parents and they feel the same when it comes in taking decisions or some measure that concern. A parent is simply your father and mother. Not having a child isn’t as if you not a parent no. Some of us have adopted children and we do treat them so well more than those that give birth to them. That’s how it feel to be a parent knowing you have a full responsibility in someone’s life. It’s not easy for a child to grow up without parental care even the parents are dead, there is always someone who gives that parental care. To be a parent and have a feeling of being one, they must be able to carried some functions to build up the child. These include;

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Responsibility

Being a parent is not easy. From the first day of coming to this earth as a child it’s purely the responsibility of your parents. When you are conceived it’s their duty to follow medical measures to make sure you are delivered safely. When they give birth to you it’s not easy to stay up when you are crying. They nurture you even right up of paying your bills, covering you and planning for you. Some of us just grow and sometimes do not feel as if this is something to them unless you are married and start giving birth that you will have a feeling of being a parent.

Sense of Advise

To be a parent you must be a counselor. It’s not always easy to build a family. When a child grows up, he or she comes across different set up kids with their own trainings. When the two meets they form a certain characteristic that needs serious protection and you as a parent need to constantly be advising them. Sometimes our kids grow up to mature human beings but still have a low common sense and that is why a parent have to seat them down and talk to them because all a parent wants from a child is success. Advising your children always makes one to feel what it takes to be a parent. Sometimes when kids are already grown up it’s always good to advice them on the kind of friends they make and some other choices they may want to make in life. Being a good parent you must always want to see the best in your child’s life.

Love and Care.

Some of our children grow up with certain characteristics which differs from their parents own. Some have just same like their parents. This goes with, some kids grow up then become thieves, others prostitutes, some chose wrong carriers in life but as a parent they are still their children and the love for them is always there even your child kills another one. Seeing a parent cry because a child does a bad thing is because of how they feel and the love they have for that child. Some of the parents with means do caterer for their children, protect them and even find them what to do so that they can be responsible fathers and mothers tomorrow. This is the most important aspect of a parent to a kill, love. They may be angry with you, beat you send you out and do anything but that’s out itching the love they have for you. If you aren’t a parent you can feel like one when it comes to some issues in life.

Building a Home

To be a parent one first thing of how to build a home. A home is made up of a set of responsible functions within a family. The father is always the head and have to do all in collaboration with the mother to see that the children grow up in a well responsible home. They trained their children to be love, responsible, caring, prayerful and hardworking. This point touches the few ones mention above because to build a home all the above have to be put into place for everything to move on smoothly in a family. When you see great families break down is because one of the aspect of building a home was left out. If you encourage them to show some differences then expect to have a broken home from your kids when they grow up. To feel like a parent there must be love to all without conditions and the family must accept reality and do what ever it takes to grow.
This was all I had for today. Thanks for reading.

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 3 years ago (edited)

Thanks for sharing
I must say am grateful to @fombae for introducing to me this wonderful and educative platform where I can virtually learn everything.
As a parent I must say I try to be role models to my kids so that they emulate. If you don't want you to kids to lie please don't lie

 3 years ago 

Thanks for this piece.... a solid and loving home is the foundation every child deserve... at least, parents owe that to their children

 3 years ago 

Truly a parent is not just by giving birth but to take up the responsibility of raising up a child

 3 years ago 

Being a parent is one of the most enjoyable and at some point challenging aspects of life. Being a responsible one to a child who pass your DNA or not is one of the laudable things that one can do. Parenting is beautiful but parenting also takes a lot of courage and patience. Thank you for sharing your beautiful article with us. Happy to know that you are a good
parent yourself.

 3 years ago 

Waow thanks for sharing sir..a lot of things to learn and advice here

 3 years ago 

Big Love to our parents