WHY AFTER MARRIED, OTHERS LOOKS MORE INTERESTING CONSIDERATION OF OUR LIFE PARTNERS

Friends, many feel this way, but hopefully we do not include:
Before marriage, it seems our future spouse is the best creature that Allah created on earth, he is perfect human in our eyes and nothing can match. But after the application, began to see many other young men / women equivalent to him, even the heart was hesitant and continue to sound pounding; is he my soul mate?

After marrying him, woow ... suddenly many seem more interesting than our spouse. And after a few years of marriage, does it feel that everyone is better and more interesting than a spouse ?!

Where is the fault? Do our spouses have hidden their ulcers and vices before marriage? So when we find out we feel ill? Or do our spouses not look after marriage enough so that our love faded on him?

Sister HIA, the answer is actually in the hadith of the Prophet as follows:

"If the son of Adam had a valley full of gold, he would have wanted a second valley! And no one can fill his mouth except with the ground. And Allah will accept repentance who will repent! "(Saheeh Muslim, no.1738)

From the hadith we will know that the real error is very likely not from our spouse, but from the greed and greed of ourselves.

For wives, Divorced with husband because he looks black and rough skin? Try to marry another man, may even get a husband with a white and smooth, but it lazy and do not want to support the family, and may have a stack of other shortcomings!

Or for husbands, If a man marries all beautiful women throughout Java, has his lusts been overtaken? Not necessarily! Maybe he still wants to marry the most beautiful woman on the island of Sumatra!

Well ... that's the human nature, always feeling not enough! So it is important for us to learn to be qonaah, to be content with what God has given us.

Sister Ion, now ... can we see that our spouse today is the best for us? With all its advantages and a pile of shortcomings, God spreads a lot of wisdom in our meeting and union with him.

Allah is Knower, and we know not.

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