I know you wrote this 7 months ago, @desisthename but I had to comment - hope you're still around and posting.
Just found out I'm an INFJ, too! Whoa! Or I knew when I was in college but never looked into this further. Really a most complex personality but now makes so much sense - so many things!
Just reaching out to say hi and to acknowledge the struggle...but then again, it definitely has its perks as well.
Have a wonderful day!