I would like to add to the great advice @vincentnijman shared. I am a new user, but have found a welcoming community pretty quickly. I am slow to learn the ins and outs of Steemit, discord and crypto in general, but the one thing I did do that helped was study the active tags. I wrote down all of the tags that seemed to have a lot of Steem payout, and found the ones that fit my personality. Then, when I posted, I made sure to include those tags. People who have the same interests as me were able to see my content and we were able to connect and lift one another up. There is something for everyone here. Find the established tags, make genuine comments on other people's posts, and go from there. Welcome and enjoy the community! 🌱