Welcome to Steem @girlaftergod.
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Spend time reading Steem Blue Paper to know how Steem blockchain works and if you still have any queries ask them on our Ask me anything about Steemit post and we will try to answer that.
All the Best!!!
@steemladder, Thank you for the well wishes! I'm going to check out that article now. :)