All of us face different situations in life. We all have passed with some good or bad maybe worst memories and we all have different thoughts about that along with good memories we want to live our past again but on the other hand for bad memories, we want to change our past. In the end, we all know that this is how life works if we don't make mistakes we will never learn.!
In my life, I have experienced few things about whom we can hurt and from whom we can get hurt.
let's start on this
You only can hurt somebody who loves us I know we all have heard this line from LUST STORIES. But it is true we only can hurt somebody who expects things from us. Like our family members, I remember since my childhood I had so many fights with my parents because they expected things from me and sometimes I didn't fulfil their wishes so they got hurt. in my childhood, I had hot blood running through my veins. I was remembered as the angry guy in my school days. I had many fights they used to tell me not to fight and they expect that it would stop me. I remember they used to pray for me but I didn't stop until it ended up hurting me.
I also did hurt my siblings because I wanted them to don't make mistakes that I did. I kinda want them to follow my orders but they just want to enjoy their life. we had fights over better toys or better clothes or whose mom is best, I have a list of things over we had fought and ended up hurting each other.
As I grew up I had a dog name Dexter when he was 3-4 months old he used to bite and tear things apart. one day he was home alone and I don't know how he managed it but he got outside his dog house and started destroying things. As I came back I saw he destroyed so many things including My wallet and money in it and that was the time of demonetisation so I got angry and slapped him from that day he is scared of wallets.
After that, I joined the college for higher education and made so many friends but ended up hurting them too. In my college days, I had a girlfriend we had a great connection it was serious among us but after few years there was nothing, we cant even had a conversation without shouting each other insulting each other showing what we have done for you and got nothing back and all this because we expected more and more.!
I just want to highlight that pain comes along with every form of relationship that we are attached with. When you can manage a fight with your parents and get over it like that was a lame chapter. And love them again and you dismiss the unnecessary baggage of things that brought a heated up discussion.

You love them more and more. We are too reluctant with the idea of love and get paranoid about it when someone hurts us. Imagine the effort your parents and siblings make to say you a sorry, they bring you chocolates or secretly invest their little bit of fortune on your smile.

It's your call to decide whether you're able to forgive your loved ones or are getting inflicted with the hurt. And if things don't do any good, you can dispose the extra baggage of hurt and don't give a damn about it.!