Infidelity is not always bad: how adultery can improve your relationship

It is necessary to open up sexually in order to really enjoy the pleasure as a couple, and adultery can be a door to renew the passion in a relationship

In recent times, everything related to innovation in the sexual practices of couples is fashionable. Although there is still a more traditional predominant view, there are still times when taboos, sadomasochism, infidelity or other sexual practices that are far from the jack, horse and king are more common. It is quite possible that the explosion of phenomena such as 50 Shades of Gray have greatly influenced this new conception of relationships as couples, but reality shows that more and more cases of couples are freed from that slab of prejudice and not they are afraid to innovate in their intimate practices.

For a long time, sex was a hidden aspect in the relationships of couples and the conversations on this pleasant field were reduced to the previous and postcoital moments. In contrast, it is now very common to see how many couples consider sexual happiness tremendously important, regardless of the more open or closed view they have about their relationship, as they indicate in Alternet.

Many partner therapies are introducing sexual innovation as a means of solving problems. Therefore, it is possible that some actions that were previously seen as negative might be able to help relationships. One of them is, surprisingly, infidelity. It is clear that the horns have been endless conflicts and ruptures, but therapists like Esther Perel believe that adultery is the most common. Perel indicates in a TED talk that she likes to talk about adventure because it is something secret, with an emotional connection, more or less large, and with a strong sexual connection