hi @alliski
what you feel must not be a beautiful sensation. unfortunately people still have too many prejudices about many things, starting with the women and the work we do. many connect the concept of work to a physical effort or to going to an office, while intellectual work is not considered at all, as you say is like doing nothing. it's frustrating. and anger that your being at home is equivalent to being disturbed at all times !!
Luckily you don't give up, you don't let yourself be influenced by the opinions of others and you continue to do what you like.
congratulations for the curie vote and thanks for sharing with us