Meant To Be: Should You Get Married or Burn In Lust?
Love is easily found and makes the world go round.
Love, I guess is hard to express but when it struck you, it's hard to resist.
Mankind is created through love, by love and all for love.
When you found the one, all you can do is let go of your fears, do your best and God will take care of the rest.
Let's see how God views about sexuality & relationships. I think it's the best idea about it.
1 Corinthians 7:1-7 1"Now for the matters you wrote about, It is not good for a man to have sexual relations with a woman. 2 But since, sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman to her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
When Apostle Paul said this, Corinthians had so many questions regarding this. Yes, it's hard to live a life without sex 'cause you know, it's a gift to all flesh. Nothing can question that! But when it comes to this thing, it's sacred. In the eyes of God, only you can do sex with your own spouse. I know that many young people out there are doing this, I cannot condemn you with that. We still have a lot of time to change, not just for the people around you, not just for your future spouse but for yourself. Just LOVE YOURSELF. You cannot allow yourself to buried in lust. You cannot allow yourself to be deprived by others, bullied or hated because you are doing that at the wrong time. This is just my opinion and I'm sorry if it hurts you. Honestly, I was never into sexual relations though I have experienced in having a boyfriend in the past.
Many in the world today makes sex as a living. Porn sites all over the internet. They make love, I mean not love. They make sex because of money. And it's really not a good job. There's more jobs out there for you to create a new life and prepare yourself for the future. Change it for yourself. Make your life count. Value it. Love it as it is in the first place. I'm not saying this because I am perfect, hey, nobody's perfect. Absolutely no one! But for me, I am so concern to the young people like me. There's so many way we can earn. And if we will wait at the right time, it will be worth it. It seems that God never sees it? You're wrong. He's so wide awake even when we sleeps and nothing is ever missing, He is recording it. He sees everything. So take your time to ponder and live it well because sex without marriage is abomination before God.
I am saying this because I love the young people and everyone who is reading this and not.
Don't burn in lust, get married and enjoy life at it's fullest. Enjoy sex with your spouse, there's no sin committed with it because in the sight of God, you are one.
This is just my opinion about sexual relationship. I know you guys have something too. You can share it in the comment below. It'll be good idea in sharing thoughts together. Have a blissful day.