Can cursing really be soothing? You will be surprised to know what the answers are!
You know those moments when someone annoyed you
Or did something happen to you and you throw a juicy curse into the air?
"son of a ****" !!
At the University of HI.S., five hundred students were taken to examine the next thing.
Ask them to curse as much as they want in three weeks and to check whether the curses really calm them down?
The results are surprising!
The first thing they discovered was that girls were cursing less than boys! Perhaps because of ethical codes of modesty rooted in humanity today, perhaps because the woman's soul more sensitive? But on the other hand, if the mind is more sensitive, I would expect the opposite to happen, for the woman to curse more because she is hurt more quickly.
The researchers noticed that women curse less, but the curses they curses reassure them more, and here are the reasons
The results show that men curse nearly 1.3 times more than women.
Another result is that if you use one curse too many times it will lose the relaxation effect.
If you use a variety of curses you will probably be able to relax more easily ..
Sounds too good? lets curse! Well, things are not exactly the same. The results of the study clearly indicate that when cursing a lot, a situation is created that slowly the curses (no matter which arsenal of curses you have) become less and less soothing.
One of the research authors, Dr. Oren Weirn, says:
"Unambiguously we checked whether a curse can calm a person who entered distress and the answer is yes and no, yes short term not long term"
Dr. Oren Weirn adds:
"At first, our primitive brain recognizes a curse as a repeated assault on the person who hurt us or what hit us, but our brain slowly realizes that the problem is not solved by curses and therefore the curses stop alleviating the agony of a person who has entered a nerve attack or pressure"
When should I use curses if at all?
"It's best not to use curses because they do not solve the problem, but if it's hard for you to get out of stress without curses, it can sometimes be a temporary relief like Advil to a headache.
thanks for reading !
@amiramnoam
of course it is soothing hehe
hehe the research says something little different
Liked it !!!
The different ones always attract attention and win. And you are good at this @amiramnoam
Oh yea, sometimes it's relaxing to curse - but only if it's not followed by guilt!
guilty never makes me relax :)
good point.
F*** you, sorry. Great post bro haha feels good.
Lol good post! I used to think cursing was not ladylike and stopped using any curses for years....until I had three kids now I curse to let off steam, but not in front of the kids! I save the really bad curses for when I’m driving around on my own! Hahaha
Hehe I hope you don't curse your kids 😜
Haha now that I don’t!....maybe when they are teenagers it might be a different story!
@amiramnoam - **Son of a *#$@# !! What a discovery. I wish I had read about this research when I was younger. Could have told my parents I was scientifically relieving my stress!! LOL. Unfortunately, without this research to back me up, I have ended up getting a nice thumping from my parents for using bad words many times!
Thanks - amazing research these days. Enjoyed reading about it. Upvoted full through steemfollower.
Regards,
@vm2904
Women cursing less is also a cultural thing. You should hear mine when we are alone. I'm almost bullied!
I know that if you bang your toe on the bed then cursing definitely helps to ease the pain. Temporarily at least.
I have recreated this experiment dozens of times.
It also depends on the time intervals between the curses
Amazing write up and research based information in which you highlighted the Human Behavior in a very logical way, Appreciated!
I want to add something in this worth reading research conclusions; Environment and the situation does matter a lot while cursing something or someone. It is also amazed me with the Ratio among Women and Men still i would like to say, Environment can change this ratio.
In Holy Book Quran Allah says;
Great Work and I want you to continue this effort because your such words can change one's approach towards life, Yes i got much impressed.
Keep the good work high, My support is always with you @amiramnoam
Stay Blessed!
Cursing is a way to ease the tension that a person is feeling at any given time, but it can also be a negative signal to the person it's been direct to, so, in other words we most use our discretion when it's directed to another person as it might cause on argument but i do understand the benefits of the smoothing idea , thanks for sharing this lovely content
For me cursing just makes me feel a whole lot worse, it makes me feel all boiled up and usually gives me a headache. When I feel stressed out I usually take it all out on a punching bag or pillow. That however, only gives a temporary relief, working on the problem and solving it is the only I completely relieve myself of the stress.
This is just for me, everybody deals with problems differently.