What a lovely story @briancourteau .. the way you speak about your parents reminds me of the way my boyfriend speaks about his parents, who unfortunately passed away a few years before we got together.

I can feel that they've taught you many valuable lessons by reading your post. Lynn is one lucky woman !

Another thing I want to say is:

Another thing that I've experienced first hand.. my boyfriend took that role for my two oldest when we still lived in Holland. And most people told him he was nuts ;-) He did a great job though and taught them more norms and values in those few years than the actual dad. Unfortunately they're not with me (long story Lynn has read some of it I think, but its a sobby story )

I can only have huge respect for people like you.. I'm sure you've taught those kids things they'll never forget ♡