You would agree with me when I say;

A close friend is worth more than a brother far away.

we all have that one person we call our buddy, a life pal, your bff (best friend for ever), your bestie, the list can go on endlessly.
in whom we share crazy moments, sometimes sad other times, moments which goes beyond our widest imaginations. Memories are created years after, such memories are reminisced and laughed at.

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The one who we share most of our secrets with. They know our strength and weakness and try to compliment and encourage each us.

for the ladies she's a gossip mate. when you come across that guy (your crush ) she's the first you break it to,going on a date there is always a tip or two to be received.

when the unimaginable happens (relationship break up) she's there to console and help take your mind off the pain,go out on girls night out.

For the guy's one who we hang out with. that one person who is different from the bunch,understands the guy code, can stick his balls on the line no matter what may follow.
When you don't have the nerves to approach that long time crush, he gives you advice, boost your moral that makes you take that bold step, which always results in something special.

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what ever challenges or surprise life throws, together it is tackled. that's the kind of friend we all wish to have.
luckily some few already have such.

If you find yourself among this few (with a friend so dear), keep them very close (jealously), for good friends are hard to come by, they can't be bought no matter how wealthy you may be, a friend who sees beyond your riches to tell you not what you want to hear but the truth ( the raw truth ) even when it halts.

Their sincere words are like mirrors which reflects reality for us to model our actions.

The kind of person we are or become,our life style, attitude are mostly influenced by the character of our friends. It always rub on us.

Most times we fight, o yes it's normal even besties fight, it's not all the time rosey, what matters most is reconciling,
After sometime, when you have cooled down, you will start thinking straight what led to this and how it could have been averted.Then you will start devising plan to set things right.
it's the things they have in common that always bring them back.
Like a game( they support the same team ),your team winning a game or even the tournament. Catching Favourite Movies( box office block busters ), latest fashion trends( for the ladies ),gossip, reality shows.

If you are yet to have one, hope is not lost.
All you have to do is find that pal for the guy's,girlfriend For the ladies in whom you connect more,share interests and do things freely when you are around them.

Make a bestie out of that friend, be sincere, be a good friend, every one is in search of a bestie. you too can be a pal to someone.

Here's an advice don't let your friend choose you but rather be the one to choose them. because

friends are like colour-pen they beautify our paintings. choose the right colour and your life Will become a masterpiece.