Gary Vaynerchuk, the man that "not gives a fuck".

in #life7 years ago (edited)

My lack of interest in complaining is so high and when I watch what people complain about it breaks my heart because they completely lack perspective.
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The reality is that It just never been better to be a human being. That just the truth. That is just data. That is the reality.

-Gary Vaynerchuk

Gary describes the losing pessimistic DNA to the people who think the world is bad. On the other hand he talks about the optimistic winning DNA to the people who think the world is an awesome and fenomenal place.


Gary Vaynerchuk

Today I want to share a speech of Gary Vaynerchuk. It is a few months old, but it was very motivating for me so I want to share it anyway.

How the humans are underrated. It has never been better to be a human being.

The human race is underrated. We are good. Of course, we have some bad, there are fucking 7 billion of us! How much damage could we do to each other? And we do not? We figured out how to stay together. Yet everybody dwells when someone says something mean…

I love how Gary believe in the human race. I have been thinking a lot about why people complain all the time, but I have never had the courage to stay up for what I think. I often just stay silent. I hope that posting here at Steemit will make me more confident so I can stay up as Gary do in the future. Gary just do not give a fuck about what others might think and that is admirable. This is the main reason I look up to Gary.

We got to see things in perspective.

Evrybody sucks, at something. We all have shortcomings. Why do we just look at it this way? I am good at this but not at that? Focus on the things you are good at! Do not dwell if your not good at fixing shit around the house! I call somebody to fix it. I am not like; "I am not a man." I do not give a fuck. I do not get it...
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These stereotypes are so silly.

Since I started reading books I have always strived to change the things about myself that I am not good at. However, after Gary talks about how we ain't perfect in everything I realized that I use way to much time to become better in things that I am not good at... I think I would get way more out of my life if I start to work with the things I am good at, and I have plans to do so.

Do not bullshit me with bad excuses


Gary compares successful people who complain about things besides those who don't. I love the way he get upset when telling people that they got all the money they could ever want, why do you complain to me? You just got to do what you want with life! Start to see whats good in it!

Do not bullshit me! Do you wanna spend more time with your family? Spend more time with your family.

Do not make excuses. Be happy with where you are. Think about what could be the outcome of the things you say. Why would anybody want to listen to your excuses?

You cant pick and choose

The number two sector in the world that is hurting the environment is the fashion industry.
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All my fancy friends who love the environment are they willing to give up their fucking Louie bags? Lets see. So like I think people talk shit.

The only thing that shows what people really thinks, is their doings. It does not matter if you tell you are open minded if you aren't. You can not just talk about your principles in life, you got to live after them as well.

Just watch the video...

This video just contain very much information and its difficult to make a summary. I have tried to point out a few of them. I suggest you all set 15 minutes aside to watch this video.


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Hey! I got a (tiny) curation reward for upvoting one of your posts and Cosme to see what you are up to - only to find out you aren’t up to anything!

LMK when you come back :)

Hi @metzli!
Thanks for getting back to me and motivating me to write more! The holidays have been stopping me a bit, but I hope to start writing again soon! :) I think I might had to big plans to keep them consistant so I will try to make more and smaller posts instead of just full book reviews to keep posting at least one post evry second or third day.

Great work! Very good article ☺ I like about Gary how he talks about work and dedication. It's very inspiring and motivational.
And yes, his way of speaking just makes you stop and listen. His channel is totaly worth it!!

Thanks for your respons! I am happy to hear you like it! I have always wondered if my English would be good enough for writing posts :-P

"You can not just talk about your principles in life, you got to live after them as well."

We are idealistic but to really do what we say takes sacrifice and commitment... millennials have a lot of talents and strengths but can seem to waste time getting into action.

Yeah true. I think this is something I will have to struggle with my whole life :P I think it is good to read these self improvments books and be aware of the problem. At least I think it is a good start if you want to change something :)

Right... you are on to a great start. Diagnosing the problem is half the solution.

Thank you for sharing your post. Much luck to you.

Thanks @metzli! I'm glad you found the post interesting.

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