How to Save the Successful People from the Psychology of Envy 5

in #life6 years ago (edited)

We can meet people who are in our own space or better in any area than we are. This is a normal situation. They will always be more successful than you are. People usually do not feel well when they face such situations. Feelings of inadequacy and jealousy can occur with it.

Sometimes when we see people who do things that we have not tried and are successful, I am better at making things. However, we are zero in terms of practice and disrespectful in a sense.

According to a survey , feeling jealous is more common in people who spend a lot of time in social media. It should not be forgotten that jealousy of successful people is unhealthy and useless even if there is a human condition.

1) Be careful when you are jealous

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The situations that you are most jealous can be very valuable signs for your life. If you get to know them and go out on their own, who knows, maybe you will be someone who will not be jealous of anyone in the future

2) Accept

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We should learn to accept first. Feeling of jealousy is natural, it can always happen. What we need to do is to focus our emotions on how people are doing it and doing what we want to do.

3) Do not compare

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We have to stop making comparisons with ourselves. Remember that each person's life experience is different, the ways they follow are different. There are areas where everyone is weak as well as areas where they are strong. We must first focus on ourselves and look to develop ourselves from every angle.

4) Turn jealousy into motivation

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When we see people's successes, we have to focus on their good aspects and philosophies. This allows us to be motivated by inspiration while we are jealous. Do not forget that there are people who have been inspired by successful people, at least for a while.

5) Celebrate people's successes

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It is very comforting to celebrate successful people even if you do not go to school. Being happy with their happiness is healthier and more stressful than being jealous and jealous

--@brkylmz

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