Unfortunately most people make assumptions about others and then judge them. That is why there is so much negativity because people don't take the time to reach out and learn. I've had my own times when people misjudged me and caused painful situations and memories. But as I have grown older, I find that the most important thing is, "how do you perceive yourself". From every bad situation, I have learned to look for something good to grow from. I have really become a better person for it. We can all learn from life's experiences and grow as human beings. Have a great day!