I agree, but for some reason im shallow myself and am attracted to only cute/beautiful girls who wont like me back. I wish I wasnt, I dont want to be, I wish I could brainwash myself into seeing all people as the same. Im sorry that happened to you. I cant imagine what it must have been like. I had heart surgery last novemeber so I lost a lot of my muscle mass and gained a few pounds which is also the reason I have been feeling unattractive recently. I have started taking up lifting again, but my chest has titanium plates in it which pinch my nerves if I do too much exercise, which is disheartening.