the storm and the calm

When a storm appears in our life, we have the habit of thinking that nothing else matters to us; we close ourselves in our own world, away from everything and from others with the certainty that this way we can forget or end our frustration. Saying that nothing matters to you, reflects your inability to value yourself, thinking that the only culprits are others. The only thing we want to do at that moment is to run from everything that is around us; Without realizing that we ran from ourselves, the exterior has no fault. Have very high expectations and accept unnecessary damage, for sure you can feel bad. If you consider that your life ends with a suffering that you accepted, it means that you do not know anything about yourself. We take our inner child when we feel hurt, but we keep it very well in moments of joy, thinking that we are innocent in the eyes of others. The same mistake is when we look for someone who understands us or who can only listen to us. We put our will in them, not in ourselves. You have to think that your suffering is a way of remunerating others, it's time to open yourself to the world. You already lived in your fantasy world and you have to face the outside. A person can be responsible only if their interior is opened. For this reason the suffering seems to never end, because nobody shares anything. It seems that he expects a miracle to follow his life or that time will bring him everything he lost on a gold tray. Instead of waiting for things that can never come, better get your frustration off in another way. Stop being selfish and share your fortune with everyone who does you good ...