Why do people stop dreaming?

in #life7 years ago

Our Dreams. 

There is nothing more beautiful than closing your eyes and having relaxed to run ahead years so by 5 to 10 imagine yourself as that happy person as in a distant childhood, to have everything about what we so long dreamed of and become what we wanted to be in distant childhood dreams. Perhaps at the moment, these dreams have changed and become something,

Something more perfect or vice versa, all dreams turned into a sad memory and each time they make you sigh and get upset. Just imagine yourself in the role of the man who has already achieved everything in his life. If you are not afraid to dream it's just fine to you lucky I believe that everyone who dreams is happy,

Because our imagination is one of the best gifts of the universe, which we have the opportunity to use at any time, always, everywhere. I will tell you about my impressions for sure you have the same feelings, feelings of inspiration and joy, enthusiasm, energy, positive. This is how you can feel our dreams,

Whatever they were (wild and passionate, fantastic, cocky, romantic and gentle), you will not list all. But you can feel it. If you dream only imagine how lucky you are, because there are people who have long buried their most vivid desires under their doubts and unbelief in happiness and joy.

Why do people stop dreaming?

 Most likely they become afraid that their dreams will never come true. Because of this, the most natural defense mechanism of our body works. At a time when we stop believing in something, for example things like (love, strength, honesty, fairness, any chance),

All this is very natural with time dying or falling asleep so strong sleep that it is better not to awaken, so as not to cause pain and a storm of negative emotions. For example, I dreamed to ask a brave question to a man who seemed to me too dreamed. But when I asked what you dream about, you did not hear anything. The man left my question,

Then I went on the other side and asked about the same thing, but what is your goal in life? And I did not hear anything new typical (car, apartment, money, children), yes, but I did not mean it, of course this is one of the most banal things and I believe that such things are not stipulated they should have everyone, even attention to It does not appeal.

But I meant something more significant. And so he received no answer. Probably people will say that this is an exception, and in fact, everyone dreams of it, just not everyone can open themselves sincerely to an outsider at once. Maybe,

But when a person is reminded of his dreams or is forced to think in his eyes immediately sparkles and even can be seen with the naked eye that when a person thinks about his dreams he does not feel a little happier and a smile appears, the state of mood changes, and even his eyes can start to shine.

And therefore very often asking the first question to any person who dreams whether he can quickly determine whether this is so, this question for someone who knows the answer to it will not make you think long. 

Why should everyone dream?

 I do not impose my opinion on anyone, but I want you to know. Why this is very important. First, I will say just my point of view.

I can not imagine myself without my dreams without that center of the rainbow of fun inside of me. What will ignite the spark in me the most, that I will have the strength to move towards my goal? What will help me give birth to new ideas, something to create and come up with? What will excite in me passion and desire for something great? If I knew something else more powerful,

Then I would not lie, so the answer is only one and this is a dream. I will not argue with you and I will not doubt my conviction that this is so. Of course, deepening so zealously and uncompromisingly in the word dream, we will remember about such words (duty, motivation, purpose, expectation, desire, mission), we will give them the same place, but it seems to me that the dream is something,

Create something, do something that will remain forever in the memory of your friends, relatives, then that will not allow you to forget about you in several generations. Because history does not forget the great people, great achievements and exploits. Probably this is the secret dream of everyone to live so that to leave behind a valuable,

About which they will continue to talk, admire and appreciate for a long time. After all, the dream is the destination, and the mission is the mission, the improved dream is the goal, the goal is motivation, motivation is the desire. Maybe I'm wrong, but all of the above should have already led you to the idea that everything is interconnected.

We are on this earth for the sake of finding our destination. Define the mission and goal, change and realize yourself to leave all the best that we have created. We are born to be happy, to create and create the beautiful. That's why we need a dream and imagination. 

How to dream properly?

 If there is still no question,

How to dream properly, then do not worry. Our representations are our children and you can grow them as you like. Therefore, there are no rules on how to dream properly. On this topic, I can say not how to dream properly, but how often it should be done. At least once a day, if you need energy, dream, if you run out of energy,

Ideas and answers again dream. And you will get everything you need. Together with the dreams will come not only the answers, but also the awareness, understanding what is important for you and what you most want. Of course, dreams are different. For example, I always wanted to be a super hero man spider or wolverine, or maybe superman,

It is very unfortunate that these dreams are almost doomed not to become real, but they can always be in my imagination and associate each of my achievements with every bold act with the image of Superman and be happy. The super-man has more than human abilities, such as there is no one else, that's why he is the best in everything and unique.

Who abolished the rule of becoming as unique and better than others. After all, in reality a person can develop qualities and abilities in himself so much stronger than others that all of them will be considered unique and perfect, popular and immortal. Everyone remembers presidents and orators, inventors and pioneers, the best of the best.

What is it that in our world there are no super-men certainly are - these are our idols and the people on which we are striving to become similar, reach out to their heights and become even better. Do not be afraid to dream: The higher the height you put the more time and effort may be required, but the resources almost always used are time, strength, nerves,

The energy is directly proportional to the result. No other way. I very often fall for fairy tales about luck and chance. Luck is the result of careful preparation and hard work. This is a leap to success provoked by accumulated experience,

Skills and energy in the right place at the right time and the right moment! Do not be afraid to dream is not to be afraid of your imagination of something that not everyone will decide. To be afraid of your imagination is to give up happiness and extra energy. If you have a dream, be not only bold in its presentation, write it down on paper,

No matter how real it may seem, it has the right to turn into a goal and become a little more real at first and every time stronger and stronger, and then you will feel it with your hand. Your dream will become as real as you yourself. You will become a dream for others a real happy person.

Do dreams die? 

Judging by experience and practice in most cases yes. If the dream was not born and did not become the goal, unfortunately it can not wait for the best to take into account, it is two-sided and if it gives happiness on the one hand, then on the other hand it is a misfortune, veiled by justifications and logical self-deception. But there are people,

Who can live all their lives with a dream inspired, spiritualized and also not achieve what they want. And there are people who write down their dreams on paper, create in the imagination the desired result, a clear plan of action and take steps every day from day to day towards it. The result is happiness and success. Better let the dream become a goal.

Than it will never be born my opinion. It is better to die in the struggle for your happiness than to deceive yourself with only hopes that everything will happen by itself, that everything will somehow accidentally follow. As they say it would be the head and the rest, then why 95% of people do not reach their dreams. Among them are the cleverest, most literate, most educated people,

Teachers and workers in factories with golden hands. I do not argue that if you can not achieve your dreams you can be happy, happiness can be found in the family, in children, in love, in small daily joys, but to someone it's just not enough and not everything,

Having lived the usual simple life as the majority lives in old age remains unsatisfied with their pension and place of residence and seldom looks back at the lived years with a smile. 


What do I want to say? 

Happiness - not wealth, not the possession of some property, but realized dreams and desires, harmony with oneself. Happiness is a victory over oneself.

And he who wins every day in the struggle for great dreams and goals dies happy and satisfied, and after looking back at the past years he just smiles and does not regret, because he devoted himself to worthy goals.

I want to give advice to everyone. Do not be afraid to dream about how many years you would have had, how many failures you have not been aware of. Your dreams are alive and they are always with you as long as you move and do something! Most importantly: Do not forget to turn your dreams into goals. If you are now reading this article and have reached this point and you liked it.

Let my article be remembered to you always and revitalizes every your dream, hope, faith in yourself, gives enthusiasm. If you the reader have a dream because it was for you that I wrote this article to help you, then safely right now, as soon as you finish reading, write down your dream on paper. Brightly detailed, colorful, enchanting.

Describe it in as much detail as the imagination allows. Reprint it on paper and do not forget every evening, standing at the mirror to reread.


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When I was young, all my friends and I thought we'd be rich and famous heroes and write our names in history somehow. We were like roman candles shooting into the sky. One by one, I saw all my friends' fire burn out. They lost hope, gave up and settled for the path of least resistance.

I blame our economy more than them. Businesses pay employees as little as possible and charge customers as much as possible. That's a recipe for hopelessness. I figured, if nothing I do matters, and I'm never getting out of the rat race alive, I have nothing to lose except my dreams. My boss, bank, mechanic, doctor and grocery store already took everything else from me. I'll be damned if they're going to take my dreams too.

So I work part time and write the rest of the week. If I died tomorrow, I doubt the cosmos would see me as a poor person who failed at adulting. It'd see a man who followed his dreams against all odds.

Kudos to your post. Keep writing such inspiring content.

P.S., You might want to break posts this long into two. As a long post-writer myself, I speak from experience. People are more likely to read to the end (where the upvote button is). Plus, posting two short blogs gives you two chances to earn Steem too. So, why wouldn't you?

Thank you for your recommendations, for me it is important. I kept my dreams together, but at a certain moment I lost everything. I did my work mechanically ... in my memories it is displayed like this: I am a happy happy child after two years ... and again I'm happy. Take your own!

Most of my dreams died because reality struck. But I have different dreams now and they are wonderful.