101 Ways to happiness - #29 Charismatic or just part of a herd of sheep?
Did you ever ask yourself who is the most charismatic person on earth? Let me tell you - it's a baby. When we are around the baby, we naturally feel an almost irresistible desire to make a little smile, to give him something, to say something or even touch him. The real question I asked myself is - when and where this charisma disappears?
And another question arises - is charisma a gift, or skill? What I have so far noticed, is that charisma is an extremely interesting property, which is possessed by only some people. It's a kind of interweaving of positive characteristics, which often leads to success in the charismatic person. Charisma is a gift, that reflects the actions of individuals and words. So it is about the ability to quickly and profoundly associate contacts, influence on others and to motivate them, as well as establish lasting and good relationships.
As Aristotle said: "If you want to have a good charisma, you must first be a good man." And in fact, nothing is different, because people with charisma are convincing, charming, and respectful. It's also a key motivational and lifestyle that can be won if we want to influence others in any way. To summarize said up to now, I can say, that charisma is definitely such a feature that opens the door to many individuals - both business and in private life.
If I connect the following with my intro I can only imagine, that by growing up, we feel the desire for a certain group of people. By doing so we begin to hide the characteristics that marked us in childhood. Consequently, it can also come to an end of the power of our charisma.
As sheep, we blindly followed the rest and unconsciously sank into the grays of everyday life. Only when we reach the rock bottom we understand, that life is flying by, and we are no longer active on this flight, we start to systematically work on us to be better. Of course, at first we feel down, but eventually, this pessimism helps us and motivates us to think about our situation. When a person is aware of his abilities, he can start to add some value to them and start boosting up our charisma. With self-confidence, we first gain a reputation with ourselves, and only after that with others.
As a conclusion to my today's' blog I chose and the old saying that says: "Whenever you go, always take yourself with." Keep in mind that people are those who create a charismatic job, a position in the world of estrade, the role of a sports model, etc. and not the other way around.
Good night to all!
Great edit with those balloons. I have always wanted to try that one. I'll have to now.
Very inspirational @emmamia.
Thank you. A simple filter on the camera to "pop up" only the selected color is amazing... I have to find something like that like an app for my phone.
"With self-confidence, we first gain a reputation with ourselves, and only after that with others"
So well said! If we think highly of ourselves, it will show. Not in an arrogant way but in an attractive/charismatic way. People will naturally be drawn to those that make them feel valued. And those people so easily see the value in others because they've learned to see it in themselves first.
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Thank you!
Really impressive post. really, really impressive. just salute you.
Thank you. And I really like your gif.:)
Many thanks for the interesting post that makes you think. I believe that charisma is a gift that develops from the circle of communication.
Right. Unfortunately, the powerful charisma can lead to the positive but also to negative consequences. Just look at the Gandhi and Hitler...
This is true! 100%
Beautiful life
Excellent read. Thank you. Wishing you all the best.