Same thing that I said to my friend, but I guess it was of no use, he really wanted to go the wrong way and he did...

yeah i read it......I don't know what words to use to describe it the "was no use part" Frustration? and it was supposed to be a friend which means that the relationship between you 2 is a bit stronger than me going to him and said the same.

Thankfully my close friends listen to me and value highly my opinion but ofc they are just a few. I tend to want to help others that i "deem" appropriate, that they have chances to understand what i am saying to them and there still hope for them but it's really hard.

I honestly can't tell what's on their minds (if it is anything :P ) when i am talking to them, maybe they feel like i am scolding them or that i don't know what i am saying but as i said at my post that you read i just wanna make them think by themselves!