SINGLE BY CHOICE

in #life7 years ago

Part of emotional maturity is when you're single out of choice and not by circumstance.
Some folks get so hard on themselves and people around when they get heartbroken.
It's okay to feel hurt but not to the extent of feeling and believing that all gender type of the person that broke your heart are monsters or bitches, when in actual sense you simply trusted the wrong person and got dissapointed.

Don't just hate as a defense mechanism for trying to avoid a hurtful past, or nursing a bitter grudge and trying to transfer the aggression manifesting as prejudice.

There are still positive, deserving hearts out there you know. It's all about clearing that veil of hatred and pessimism off your face to see the brighter side of life and a potentially happy relationship life...