A Sense of Caring That Has Been Betrayed
Building awareness you can have the ability to empathize with others and live life based on compassion, love, and compassion toward those around you. There is always the temptation to live a life that only cares for self-interest and focuses only on what your own goals and desires, but your days will be far more valuable if you think about what people in your life think and feel.
Building awareness means listening, understanding if someone needs help, and providing support to the community without expecting an award. If you want to know how to build greater awareness.
There are several methods to develop a more Empathetic way of looking :
1. Build sensitivity to the feelings of others
If you want to be someone who has a more focused perspective on caring, you should spend more time thinking about other people's feelings. Try to understand how the people around you respond to a particular situation, or just recognize what they feel when they face it. People who have a sense of care will usually be able to feel the mood of others and can tell whether someone is feeling sad or disappointed, and think of ways to do something to overcome them. If one day you meet other people, whether you are in the classroom or hanging out with friends, pay attention to how they feel when facing a particular situation.
2. Consider what impact your actions have on others
Maybe you yourself are very busy thinking about your needs to consider the impact of what you do or say to others. So if someday you want to do something, maybe ask your friend to clean the kitchen because you're busy, or not answer a call from your broken-hearted friend, ask yourself how this person responds to what you've done. If the answer is "not good," then you should consider changing your actions to be more acceptable to others.
3. Determine attitudes
Caring attitude towards others tends to focus on efforts to build healthy and positive relationships. Sometimes this means there will be a debate or conflict with others in order to solve a problem. However, if you want to be caring, you need to consider keeping a distance with someone, and trying to maintain a healthy and positive relationship instead of continuing to fight all the time. If next time you start arguing or arguing with someone, ask yourself if this way is really going to be useful or you just want to blow your anger out of you. If you think this debate or confrontation will not produce something useful, better forget it.
4. Respect others in your life
If you want to be a more caring person, you should respect the people in your life as well as possible. Try to always be grateful and grateful for the good of every member of your family, your friends, your loved ones, or everyone who has made your life more meaningful and better. Do not just focus on the things that make you upset or the harsh words you sometimes have to deal with, but on the contrary, try to think of all the excitement and happiness that other people bring into your life. This way not only brings you to a better mindset, but makes it easier for you to magnify your concern for those around you.
5. Keep feeling selfish
Although it is difficult to be a totally selfless person, anyone can try to be a less selfish person in interacting and living his or her daily life. If you want to reduce selfishness, you have to think more about other people's feelings and not just think about me, me, me. One time if you interact with someone, try to notice how he or she feels and how things are going rather than talking about yourself or thinking about your own needs. The more you realize you are no longer being selfish, the easier you care about others with all your heart.
6. Keep feeling selfish
Although it is difficult to be a totally selfless person, anyone can try to be a less selfish person in interacting and living his or her daily life. If you want to reduce selfishness, you have to think more about other people's feelings and not just think about me, me, me. One time if you interact with someone, try to notice how he or she feels and how things are going rather than talking about yourself or thinking about your own needs. The more you realize you are no longer being selfish, the more easily you care about others with all your heart.
Caring is a taste that we should grow in a family relationship, friends, friends and the wider community.
Regards,
@irsyadul